WORRIES AND ANXIETIES: ARE SOME THINGS REALLY WORTH THE TROUBLE?
As humans, there seem to be something to always worry about, no matter how comfortable we appear. The irony of life is that **getting more or getting it done doesn't bring an end to longing for more to be done **.
In fact, as one achievement is celebrated, another lines up to be considered, thus the cycle continue.
We have found ourselves in this race, life is an insatiable race.
When I was small. I longed to be in school like my older siblings. When I started primary school I started aiming at secondary school. Before I even finish this, I'm planning for that.
Now, the ambitions are healthy if not plagued by worries and anxieties that drives the happiness away. The problem is not in the goals, but worrying about how and when it will be fulfilled. The problem is in having sleepless nights, thinking and trying to figure out how, for something that shall eventually happen anyway. But come to think of it! Is it really worth it?
The success, marriage, career, jobs,money we disturb our minds about will eventually come at the right time. Our anxieties can't make it happen faster, but can only deprive us of the joy of living one day at a time.
That's it!
We live in too many days in one day. We carry the burdens of tomorrow into today and we wonder why we aren't happy and sleeping well. We stretch our hands towards what we can't reach now and wonder why we are tired of life. We put ourselves under pressure and deny ourselves of the joy of the moment.
We were designed to live like children, worrying about nothing, because Daddy and Mummy will provide. Yes, we have the creator as our Daddy and He's capable.
It's time to live one day at a time. Allow tomorrow to worry about itself. Discard the thoughts of past disappointment and stop using it as a proof that tomorrow will be rough. The past doesn't dictate the future, if we choose to live right today.
Please move on
Move on in your love life, embrace another relationship and work it out this time. Discard any fear trying to keep you in the dark. You still stand a chance today.
Move on in your marriage, put your foot to the ground and work it out. Don't rush to scatter it, but build. It's sweeter to build than to abandon. With you it can always get better because you have what it takes to make a difference.
Move on in your career. Don't sit at the fence, be involved in every revolution.
Never forget: worries won't solve it, happiness will
You are right, but sometimes I wonder if a man can just live a life where he wouldn't need to worry. but what i think is excessiveness of anything is abnormality and when that happens ......
Thanks for sharing
You are welcome. I love those insights you shared. Thanks a lot.
Thanks @greatness96 for your insightful post . I know when I worked in Corporate Marketing and Sales there was always a famous mantra we went by : "You're only good as your next sale."
In other wards ,you may have had a good month last month. But it's the new month and your job depends on making more sales in the new month
We were NEVER satisfied, especially our sales manager :( Needless to say Stress, stress, stress was a major part of it.
Hmmm, such is life. Keep doing your best.
to to worry is to be human. From wandering the plains as hunter gatherers.
We this mechanism to survive.
A product of the perception time.
So it's more about your perception of what is worth worrying about.
Accept worry as part of life..it is.
Wow! Nice lines there. Thanks for coming around.
For me anytime I think a lot about some problems my head aches so I have stopped worrying about somethings that would affect my health and trying very had to be strong @greatness96
Beautiful decision,dear. More strength.
Worrying is a waste of time and energy.
The best thing is to keep moving and never allow anything to stop us or weigh us down.
Thanks for the inspiration
You are welcome. I love your comment