TRY AGAIN; NOT THE TIME TO GIVE UP

Many a times in our life as humans we are inspired and motivated to try something new; businesses, careers and even relationships. After a thorough thought over the new idea, we seek the counsel and advice of experts or the experienced individual and it became clear that it is a brilliant idea. You think over it again and again, you and everyone including the expert says to you that everything about the idea is perfect and you need not to fear. Thereafter you go all out, invest and put all into this idea but suddenly the perfect and exiting idea that once had everyone endorsement begin to collapse, unexpected happenings and developments begin to cut down and destroy the possibility of the success of this noble idea. You put your feet to the ground, you fight, you work so hard in order to make it work as much as possible but unfortunately it becomes appears that is not going to work and you gradually watch every dream and expectation dissolve and escape into thin air before you very own eyes.

You become astonished and shocked to the brim that it can’t be, saying to yourself that it is not going to end just like that but trust me after a few days, it became done on you that the whole thing is true and you concluded that you have failed again. Disappointment found its way to you and you are feeling it very bad.

Disappointment is when your present experience is not in line with your appointed expectation. Disappointment happens when what we expect to happen does not happen due to circumstances we did not see before hands, imagine or think ever existed.

The pain of disappointment is most severe if it originates from people more that when it is circumstances induced. It is easier to carry on when we become disappointed by an event or circumstances but most difficult to take or handle if someone is the cause of the disappointment. When someone you sincerely love, trust and hold in high esteem makes you promise and you believe this person so much that you leave behind every other options and possibilities on the account of this promise and at the end of it all this person you believed in fail to fulfilled the promise with little or no excuse and explanation. Definitely you feel so bad considering all the time, effort and trust wasted. You begin to feel the pain of you do not consider and explore other options you ignored; with you everything gone down the drain. What will even add to the pain is that you look and found out the other options you jettisoned is now working perfectly.

Maybe this whole disappointment takes you to a point where you start to say to yourself that is this life? Is this all you can be? You arrive at a point when you are totally confused, you do not know what else to do, what else to work with, who else to trust, you do not even know who and where to turn to, you become trapped in a place and the situation become too hard for you to read through and cannot comprehend situation around you.

My dear friend, maybe you are experiencing the pain of disappointment right now, I am here today to let you know that the time you have been given to this feeling is enough. My dear friend it is time to come out of it; come on! get over it today. I sincerely know it they hurt you, the circumstances really take a lot from you; it is very painfully…I know just that. My dear friend, have you come to think of it that person who really upset and let down you lately or in the past time may have absolutely forgotten about what he or she did to you and as a matter of fact they are long forgot and free from the matter but unfortunately you still carry the weight of the experience on you. My dear friend, it will surprise you to know that people around you notice and feel this bitterness in you by the virtue of your attitudes, views, judgments, perspectives and interactions because all of these keep showing the state of your mind.

Truthfully speaking everyone around you begins to see you in the bad light which you are not truly. They begins to manage and tolerate you, some even will be greatly happy if they have the option of not seeing you around. My friend, the state of your heart is very vital as to how people perceive you and would chose to relate and interact with you. It is time my friend to let go of this bad perception, let the real beauty in you comes to the surface.

My dear friend, you still have the sound mind, you are still super intelligent, you still have that sweet heart in your being, you are very creative, you are still attractive and beautiful inside out, you can still build the most fantastic life for yourself and for all to see and admire including those that failed you. Stop to dwell on this disappointment because the more you do, the more it hurt and destroy your ability to focus. Stop the self pity my friend because it sap you personal energy. Be compassionate with yourself, remember you did not do this to yourself, some else did disappoint you so do not beat yourself up. Open your mind to next opportunities and take them up. Let go of the past and embrace the glorious future. I urge you today to reintroduce yourself to that your own very wonderful self before the disappointing incident and move forward with fresh believe, purpose, power, capability and personal possibilities. Do for yourself what you are capable of; do not expect people to do it for you, you can do it! Take up the responsibility for your life, your dream and your personal self and I assure you will be amaze at your results.

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