First mistake most people make is the assumption that love is a feeling . Far from it, Love is a decision. You decide to love someone for certain reasons and sometimes, for no real reason. The reason most people tell you that they no longer love you is because it was never love. It was infatuation, It was lust. Love is unconditional, Love is undying, Love never ends ,Love is forever . You can't be in love today and say you don't feel it anymore tomorrow .
What most people call love is just a feeling of attraction which given time, could fade away
But don't get this wrong. There is every chance love can emanate from these attractions we feel, but don't mistake the two. If you love someone, you are going to forgive them easily and always do your best not to hurt them in any way . When you find yourself not forgiving your partner, then, trust me, IT IS DEFINITELY NOT LOVE . Well, given these, keep in mind that a perfect love situation demands sacrifices, devotion, commitment, emotion, attraction and a little spicing up once in a while to make it work well .