I also struggled with this so I can completely relate to what you are saying here. I truly believe that it becomes easier with each boundary that you push. You write it, post it and hold your breath wondering what the backlash will be. Then nothing hahaha. I'm looking forward to reading what raw posts you come up with in future. You should check out the #ulog tag. That's excatly what it's there for. Real people spreading real over the internet. All the best with your journey.