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RE: This One Question Could Change Everything For You...
I really like this post. I got into it so much.
Well, my answer is that I want to stop being so anxious about loneliness and being alone...Want to stop to live in this horrible fear to lose friends and be forced to be lonely forever. :)
I 'll try hard, today I started to do my research how to heal :)
good luck! tell us how it was! Consciously, I would say on a rational side that the fear of loneliness is absurd as we are born and die alone, so why to have fear about it? Bun on a deep deep subconscious level, once I went to a very powerful inner journey and there it was my biggest fear from y life - the fear of solitude. So i feel you! Share with us your healing process :)
Of course I will :) Thanks, it's always nice to hear that somebody feels you :)
Awesome to hear you are researching how to heal! So I have a follow up question for you @dreamdiary. You've listed a lot of what you don't want (anxiety, loneliness, being alone). Those are all things you're wanting to get away from... what is that you do want - what do you want to go towards? And if that is healing, what does that look, sound, and/feel like for you?
It kind of makes sense that the idea of being alone is such a prevalent fear. I think that's because it's so far from the truth. We are all interconnected and operating from the same source. We stem from the same root and breath in life from the same air. Ultimately, we are living this experience together, not alone, and when it feels alone... that's when we know that there's a part of ourselves that we are cutting off... or said in another way... love that we're not fully letting in.
I want to heal...which 'd be: accepting myself and our natural state of being alone as normal, use my time alone as a gift just for me, do cool things in that time. I immagine it in a hygge cozy peace, with my book, some music and good coffee. Just me and feeling amazing. :)
I love feeling cozy too, especially when I'm by myself. I think that's a beautiful vision! Remember that intention when you're feeling lonely. It will help remind you that all is very well :)