But is delegating the responsibility of your mistakes to others forgivable? Is it okay to abuse social programs, tax refunds, and welfare because the parent or parents cannot raise the child themselves? Not to me.
There is no winning here.
Yes sex is a choice, but it is one with lives at stake.
Maybe the best solution is to vet everyone to see who is able to raise a child financially, emotionally and physically and give them a license. Whoever decides to have sex without the license is thrown in jail.
Abortions would drop immensely but no one would like it.