If you live in America you live in a mixed race society. Are you arguing that the vast majority of Black people don't go to Black churches, Whites White Churches, and Latinos Latino Churches? They do. The more I am around coloreds, the less I want to be. I would suggest you are sheltered or want to be.

As for violence and religion, so what? Those Jewish born Atheist Communists who took over and ran Russia at least through the Stalin error killed at least 60 million. Mankind wages violence and war. Did you know the Crusaders were running a counter-strike into Islamic territory after the Muslims struck into Europe? The Inquisition? Catholicism was the religion of the Roman Empire: "The Holy Roman Church."

Christianity is bad for women? Women have their natural and proper role as a mother. It is written a mother is redeemed through her children. A woman who wants a career wants to free herself from her natural role. If that's what she wants, let her be free and alone. Cats can be her family. She is out only for herself so maybe the cats aren't the best idea.

She can see how good of care she gets from the island girls when she needs to go into a home after living for herself.

Maybe you personally should study the natural order of things. Dogs don't have bunny ears even if you put ersatz bunny ears on them.