It's a strange situation when you come to people with a gift, with idea that can change their life for the better, and you are perceived with hostility because of incorrectly chosen words. The message is simple: Curate, communicate, improve yourself - and you will be a winner, no matter what language you use. The whole Steemit will benefit from this.
It seems people here are so used to their current situation that they are not ready to take reasonable criticism and change anything.
Don't give up Paula, you are doing a good job!