Alhamdulillah, all praise is only the property of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala, the One in His hand all things. It was he who made people laugh and cry. And He is the One Who is the Most Merciful, the Most Merciful. Salutation and greetings hopefully always poured on the Messenger of Allaah 'alaihi wa sallam, the best man who has faced various kinds of sad tests with patience and faith in the Rabb of the Worlds, and also to his family, his companions, and those who followed he is well until doomsday.
Na'am - my brother, a believer who may be blessed by Allah - is indeed a thing that is known that man will continue to feel two things in his life, sadness and joy. Both of these conditions always accompany a human being from small to death to pick him up. However, a Muslim is a person who has firm principles and beliefs that all things are in the hands of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala. This is a Muslim principle that must be embedded in their breasts.
"A Muslim has firm belief that all things are in the hands of Allah‘ Azza wa Jalla "
If a Muslim has permeated and understood the above principles, then he will believe that everything that happens in this world, everything that befalls him, is the will of Allah za Azza wa Jalla.
"There is no accident that befell someone except with the permission of Allah; and whoever believes in Allah He will surely guide his heart. And Allah is all-knowing "(QS. At Taghabun: 12)
Sometimes, indeed an exam comes repeatedly and makes a human being almost desperate. "Am I not good deeds ?? Did I not live the sunnah of the Prophet ?? When does God's help come? When is this all over? When is ... when ??
Thayyib, if we really have done good deeds, do we think we will go to heaven easily just like that without an exam blocking?
"Do you think that you will go to heaven, even though it has not come to you (trials) like the previous people before you? They are afflicted by calamity and misery, and are shaken (in various trials) so that the Apostle and those who believe with him say: "When will the help of Allah come?" (Surat al-Baqarah: 214)
Then, Allah, Ar Rahman, answered with a very beautiful answer that raised the hopes of the believers ...
"Know, indeed God's help is very close" (Surat al-Baqarah: 214)
Yes ... God's help is very close, but sometimes we don't realize it. Indeed, Allah's grace is very broad. And we neglected him. We just say, "Why should I ??". "Why is this accident never finished ??". And various other reasons continue to emerge in the mind which can eventually cause bad prejudice to Allah Ta'ala. Na'udzu billahi min dzalik!
First, O my brother, Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala is the Essence of the Most Just, never and impossible to judge His servants.
"And your Rabb does not condemn anyone" (Surat al-Kahf: 49)
Secondly, everything that befalls us, everything is written in lauhul mahfuzh.
"There is no harm that befell on earth and (not) to yourself but it is written in the book (Lauhul Mahfuzh) before We created it. Indeed, such is easy for Allah "(Surat al-Hadid: 22)
If so, a Muslim will be aware, know, and surrender to the provisions of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala. He will realize that everything that befalls him has indeed been destined long before he appeared in this world.