Greetings @jasminemary,
We are living in a free world as such we are all entitled to our different opinions, your opinion is that you believe in reincarnation and you even cited an instance from your neighbor's child; beautiful. But what does the bible or whatever doctrine you believe says about reincarnation, note all these happenings could be mere coincidence. But as I said earlier, everyone is free to on whatever my dear, by the way I love the part you would still want to be you, if there were to be a reincarnation. Best regards