So after reading your post I am not 100% sure your ETH has been lost yet. Now if you sent it to the wrong address it may be, however if i read this mornings letter correctly. If i read it right pre-sale tokens will not appear until the main sale is over because of how the contract was written. Also I have to agree with the trending comment on your post that you will be much more likly to get some help after the ICO crazyness dies down. If you truly lost it I'm so very sorry but we all know cryptos are like the wild west right now.