how to educate / teachin our child

jihansteem (31)in #how • 6 years ago

how to educate / teachin our child

The number one parent challenge is to raise your child by educating a good and right child and desired both partners. This is because the things that are taught to the child from an early age can be attached to adulthood.

How to Educate a Good and Smart Child

Each couple certainly has a different way of educating the child. According to psychologist, Diana Baumrind, parents have three parenting styles. Which is the style of parenting Mam and Pap?

*Authoritarian

This is a very strict style. Parents set the rules in the hope that their children can follow the rules. If you do not follow the rules, children will usually get punished.

Parents who follow this style usually do not argue or talk about it first with your child. Children will be withdrawn and may not be able to think for themselves. This is because they are never given the opportunity to speak and express their opinions.

If this is the style of parenting Mam, try to invite your child to be able to issue ideas and opinions. If your child does not understand why they should be disciplined, try to explain what reason Mam set the rules.

Democratic

These parenting styles set rules and guidelines for their children, but not authoritarian. Parents are much more open to hearing the children's words and understanding their needs. If it breaks the rules, children will be rebuked in a subtle and non-violent way.

Although monitoring and supervising the behavior of children, parents will not interfere in the child's life for example when looking for friends. New parents will take steps if they feel the child is in danger. This pattern is considered the most ideal and most common style of parenting.

Permissive

Children raised in a permissive style will show a spoiled and disturbing tendency. Children will also tend to behave badly if they do not get what they want. This is because parents of this type do not set limits or rules.

Although there are rules, children will usually violate. If this becomes Mam's parenting style, make rules that the child should obey and do not give up. Every now and then Mam can give a gift to the little guy if he behaves well. It is great for your baby's future when facing "the real world" when not everyone can treat him like Mam.