Tomorrow's Horoscope Aug 13th, 2019

It is not a good idea to motivate yourself with anxieties and fears.
Some people may succeed by driving yourself with such negative emotions.
For example, you think like "If I fail with this, I will have no second chance of success." before a game, and win the game.
But in some other cases, it won't work.

Maybe you are not young enough to find a new job, and you fear to be jobless and are forced to start your own business.
Maybe you are not young enough to find a new partner and scared of being alone whole life, and there are no other choices but to marry your current partner with whom you don't get along.
If you have made such difficult decisions, I want you to wait for a while.
Not only it is unhealthy for your mental conditions, but recently, mental peace and confidence, having fun, or choosing what your heart likes is more likely to lead you to success.
And the thought, "It can't be helped." may place you into more dilemma.

In the long-term, it is likely to succeed with such negativities according to the few years horoscope.
But during this Leo time, you need to stop and find "values" in what you are forced to do with negative emotions, or by fate or misfortunes.
I know that you start the business because you cannot find a job.
Or, you marry because you give up searching for a better partner.
But it is sad if the reasons for the choice are all that.

Whatever the people around you think of you, it doesn't affect what you value.
For example, in Japan, some people still believe pregnancy before marriage is a lack of planning and is therefore embarrassing.
Or, maybe you have impulsively quit your job and don't know what to do.
And people see such you and tell you, "How can you be so unplanning at your age?".
Let them say whatever they like.
If you enjoy your life, or you feel alive with it, it is OK for this moment.
I believe everything will settle down as it is meant to be.

恐怖や不安に駆られて行動するのはよくないかなと思う。
排水の陣で成功する人もいるのだろうけど。
今の星回り的には、精神的な余裕・自信を持つこと、楽しむこと、本来があなたが得意としてることをやることで、成功へのきっかけを掴めるときだと思うので。
例えば、年齢的に就職先がないから起業する、とか。
例えば、年齢的に新しいパートナーを見つけるのは難しいから、いまいち上手くいってない今のパートナーと結婚する、とか。
そういうのは思いとどまったほうがいいのかもしれない。

もっと長期的なスパンででいうと、今年～来年というのは、排水の陣で成功しやすいんだけど。
その期間中のこの太陽獅子座の１ヵ月間というのは、ちょっとその排水の陣の計画から離れて骨休みをして、本当にそれでいくのかってことを問い直すときかなと思う。
排水の陣でいいんだけどね。
いいんだけど、排水の陣の覚悟でやろうとしてることに、何らかの楽しみ、あなたがそれを選んだ本当の理由、を見出す時なんじゃないかなと思う。
ただ、儲かるし、競合がいないから、とか。
ただ、他に相手がいないから、とか。
それではあまりにも寂しい。
妥協なのかもしれないけど、妥協の中に、あなたなりの価値を見出したい時。

周囲にとってどうであれ。
あなたはあなた。
例えば、デキ婚なんてみっともないって未だに言う人いるみたいだけど。
例えば、衝動的に仕事をやめて自由時間をえたはいいものの、手に職があるわけでなし、どうしようかと途方に暮れていたら、「計画性がないのは社会人失格」などと言われたりして。
あなたが楽しければ、あなたがそれで生きている実感をえられるのであれば、何も問題はないのだと思う。

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