Tomorrow's Horoscope Nov 17th, 2018
A relationship kept by empathy or co-dependency.
Or an idle habit.
There ARE good parts to them.
For example, maybe you have friends who meet at a cafe and complain about their work or the people around them a whole day.
If you enjoy the meeting and the complaining, it's not a problem.
Maybe you idly watch YouTube or Twitter, and you think it's a waste of time.
But YouTube and Twitter could be a good resource to know the latest trends.
You may want to have a friend who is ambitious like yourself, rather than a friend who complains about almost everything.
I said YouTube and Twitter could be a good resource, but if you watch only videos which make you feel comfortable being lazy and aimlessly living your life, then it's a different story.
So you want to read books rather than watch YouTube or Twitter, but you cannot change yourself.
While being in such situations, tomorrow, the Moon and the Neptune overlap at Pisces.
Maybe you find value in something which you want to sort out or even throw away.
For example, if you want to have an ambitious friend, just add him/her into your friends-list, rather than throw away old friends, who you think no point in having.
Accept diversity in your friends.
Diversity means to accept bad ones.
We cannot call it diversity while you look at good people and say "be friends with them."
Of course, you can be friends with good people.
A problem arises when we need to be friends with bad people.
There ARE both good and bad people.
Ms. Merkel still ignores such simple facts.
So be tolerable, which I'm not sure if it's the words Ms. Mrkel uses but I think is what she means.
And as I said, YouTube and Twitter are good resources to know the latest trends and know lots of different people.
It's what most books don't cover.
共感、共依存で繋がってる人間関係。
惰性で続いてる習慣。
もちろん、それらにも良い側面はあるんだけど。
例えば、愚痴を言って共感しあって、という人間関係は、それが息抜きになり、楽しいのであればなんの問題もないと思う。
例えば、だらだらとYouTubeやツイッターを見てしまうと悩んでいるかもしれないけど、それらは立派なインプットでもあるし。
ただ最近は、それらの悪い部分がクローズアップされやすいのかなと思う。
愚痴のために粗探しをする人よりも、野心を持った、もっと高い志を持つ人と繋がりたい、とか。
YouTubeやツイッターは選べばインプットになるんだけれども、耳の痛いものを避け、心地よいものばかりを目にしていたら、それはただの慣れ合い、傷のなめ合いでしかないし。
なので、やはりきちんとした読書をしたい、が、ついYouTubeやツイッターをクリックしてしまう。
そういう中、明日は魚座で月が海王星とコンジャンクション。
あなたが今何とかしたいと思ってる人間関係や習慣の、価値が分かるのではないかなと思う。
例えば、志高い人と繋がりたいというのであれば、今までの人間関係にプラスすればいいだけで、今までの人間関係を捨てる必要はないわけで。
もっと色んな人を受け入れる、寛容さというものがあればいいのではないかなと思う。
YouTubeやツイッターも、トレンドを知るには不可欠なものであるし。
読む本にもよるけれども、読書ではなかなかトレンドは把握できないしね。