time, love and death... let's begane there

Why do we Love? Why do we waste Time and why do we die? What is your Why? Why do you get out of bed? Why do you go to work? Why did you eat what you ate? Are our realities, our so desired answers to the burning questions within our ever evolving world?

Life is about connecting with people and how can we do that through the Trinity (Love, Time & Death). These 3 abstractions connect every human being on earth. Everyone we’re crazy about, everyone we fear not having or getting, everyone we miss when gone because at the end of the day we long for love, wish we had more time to spend with them and finally fear of leaving or losing them.

Time, it heals all wounds but no one talks about how it destroys all that’s good, how beauty becomes ash, or young become old, a dead element that wouldn’t decompose. Time to some is Heaven on Earth and to others it’s a prison sentence waiting for an actual death. Every man has a reality that stares at his face each day. It always been a race against time and by no means are we close to winning literally. Time is a gift and you’re reading this only because you have the time to. Time is a stubborn persistent illusion meaning in the real sense Jan — Dec or Sun — Fri is all in our heads, so said Einstein which can be bullshit! Time can be linear ask Apple and Google (Steve Jobs can testify if he could).

Death, causes so much pain and inspire such fear. Situations when we look to the cosmos, Heavens, gods for answers but Death wouldn’t trade but rather take away. Sometimes Death never gives time or chance to feel pain or grieve a little before our loved ones actually leaves. Very sure you’re aware of some cliché sayings “He/She is in a better place” or “God looked down and saw a beautiful flower and plucked it”. We sang a song as kids and many kids still do “Row! Row! Row! Your boat gently down the stream… Merrily! Merrily! Life is but a dream. A dream we must accept and come to terms with that one day we shall wake up, all this will be over and the loved ones are still forever gone.

Love, we never get to choose who we love and who loves us back (still trying to get a hang of this). Love is the fabric of Life itself. Can one do without love (err……. Still thinking) Love can be unapologetic (fuck shit-up mode) Loving a person so much that you wished you were strangers again just to re-live with them again which time wouldn’t allow (some Inception tins). They say the time in Heaven is compared to a blink of an eye for us on Earth. The ones we loved and lost or still loving will never know because the blink of their eyes is the rest of our lives. Nothing is ever dead, it just depends on how you look at it. Love (goodbye) the truth is like blood under your finger nails you really don’t wanna hurt yourself. Love can be scary at the 1st time but once held on to can give the most amazing sensation that runs through you. We hear it in their laughter, feel them inside when called out by names, heartbroken and sometimes disappointed. Love brings the sunshine, darkness and the rain but also the pain. The one many try to live without and the “Ultimate Why” We sometimes look at that special someone and realize we don’t just feel love but become love.

The role people play in our life is the embodiment of God or the universe or whatever you might call it attending to peculiar and particular situations around our lives so pay attention before you lose what’s freely given. There are events we individuals face where these abstractions have the ball of the game of our Lives in hand thrive on them. An answer to someone’s prayer can be a friction to spark the beginning of a yet unsaid prayer in your life. Love is creation and Death destruction, Time is just the terrain in between. Nothing is ever that far out of reach. It’s all the fruits we bear as humans to others that brings us closer to our reach. Events/Situations play a greater role than it seems in the Trinity abstractions of Life. As humans, once hurt we always return to our enclosed solitude or space we once were in before found and if allowed to will remain there struggling when expression is the only healing tool. There are times when we call out to the universe or a greater power in our time of disperse and the answers sometimes never as we want them but must be said or seen for the request we gave out.

Wherever Life might take us, be sure to always notice the Collateral Beauty in everything. A profound connection to everything.

It’s never too late to start all over.

Just trying to make sense of it all.