The hardest thing about honoring your parents is "color."

An old lady went to her son's room to look for a newspaper and caught him coming back. The son just talked about the collapse of a business, the mood is not very good, see the mother groping in his bed, blunt said: "Mom, you have nothing to stay in his room, don't mess around." Mother explained, "I'm looking for a newspaper to sit on your bed for a while." The son's face is very smelly before leaving the door threw down a sentence: "Eat enough to do nothing." At 12 o 'clock at night, the old mother jumped from the seventh floor.

Professor Yu Dan said in a lecture that it is easy for children to buy a car or a house for their parents if they have conditions, but the most difficult thing to do is not to give their parents a look. Confucius once said to his students that what is the most difficult to honor their parents is "color is difficult", that is, not to give their parents the most difficult face. If you show your contempt and impatience, this kind of filial piety is not in place, because it will make parents very uncomfortable.

Some people think that buying a house, hiring a nanny, eating a big dinner, going on a trip is filial piety. In fact, the material enjoyment of parents, this is the low-level "filial piety"; The high-level "filial piety" should be expressed as spiritual respect and emotional comfort for parents.

What is the difficulty of "color difficulty"? It is difficult to have a respectful heart, difficult to have a humble attitude. So "color Yue" has become a moral yardstick to measure a person's filial piety. That is, smile at your parents often, treat them with respect often, and care about their spiritual life. Look your mother in the eye honestly every day, talk to her for a few minutes - do not disapprove, do not complain, do not want to be angry with your mother, always treat your parents kindly, they will live happily.

Give parents a good face at any time, this is a matter of lifting a hand, reflecting a person's quality, but in reality, no matter what the circumstances can do to give parents a good face, and it is not an easy thing. To give parents a "good face" every day, the key is to be grateful and think more about the elders' efforts and the grace of feeding.

If you really love your parents, you should be kind, smile from the bottom of your heart, and make them feel happy and happy. What you did to your parents, your children will do to you!