Steem Skillshare Contest Entry: My Role Model

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It's a real hassle transcribing thoughts into clear and understandable words - for oneself and the readers. That's why in search of a good opening, I have scribbled and scratched a plethora of attempts. More in my head than on paper. Thinking of how best to tell you about my role model.

Role models are often defined as that one person with admirable traits which adoptees emulate. But I like to think of everyone as being role models because there's nobody who doesn't have something to offer. Even villains when constructed gloriously, grow on viewers.

I draw examples of people from different walks of life. It's kind of like having a pallete with splashes of colours - beauty in diversity.
Of course, doing this without having a firm stance might result in an identity crisis or something in those lines.

Among the many models I have taken from, my mum sits at the center. Sensei among senseis.

From an early age, I've felt like she was the best thing to have ever happened to me. Such that when I was doing so badly in school and would feel alone and miserable, she'd tell me kind words. I dared to believe in my failing self. That didn't save my grades but there are other things more important than good scores.

I guess that's a mother's love above all else.

The reason I chose her, Elaine, is because a lot of what I know or am inspired to learn, come from her prompts. I used to hate taking responsibility since I lived a shielded life but she taught me the importance of doing things for and by myself.

If I wanted to attend a workshop of interest, I'd go out there, make my enquiries, and report back to her for the rest.
I struggle with application forms that ask for more than the basic details but when I go through them with her, it's almost a breeze.

I also like how she never does anything halfway. She must go all out, regardless of us calling her extra. Here I am years later, being more than extra.

Life with her is an adventure.

There's nothing like a basic day or a regular outing - like going to her office for instance. I always learn something new. A different route, a new shopping district, vocabulary, dishes, manners, or hacks. The list just goes on.
I know it sounds like I'm painting a perfect picture of her but she isn't without her flaws.

And role models should have their struggles. In the literary world, the conflicts are what make the protagonist relatable. The fact that despite how well things seem to be going for them, they also have moments of weakness.

My role model is a very smart woman. Her ability to evaluate situations and proffer solutions are part of her good work ethics. She is confident, yet so humble. Her heart is kind and thoughtful. You can't be around her and not feel the hospitality.

Of course, I meet and will still meet more people who will impact me in their own ways and I'll always go to that with an open mind.

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As part of the rules, I'll be tagging three users:

@swaylee
@hazmat, and
@fabiha

And mentioning @abu78