Achievement post 3.... Sex and marriage
Lack of sex makes some marriages struggle.
Sex is very important in a marriage relationship, there are plenty of jokes in society about how seldom sex is hard once you are married.
However,it is no laughing matter. It's a real problem in marriage that leads to several issues and problem making it impossible for the relationship to thrive or enjoyable.
For some people, making love in marriage communicates a level of love and desires , that's if you want your spouse to love you so much , but your spouse refuses to have sex with you, the message being communicated may be that there is a lack of physical desire and love, by extension.
When a marriage continues in this way, that making love seems hard and uninteresting to one partner, there are a few things that tend to happen.
Firstly is that the partner who feels unloved and unwanted will seek that fulfillment from other sources. This can quickly lead to extra-marital affairs/ infidelity.
Even if this doesn't happen, that partner can begin to withdraw from the relationship, leaving the other person feeling unloved. This causes distances, arguments, hurt, misunderstanding, lack of commitment feelings throughout the marriage.
It’s important to note that not all marriages or relationships are defined by sexual activity, and every couple’s preferences are different. There’s no problem with choosing not to partake in sex so long as both partners are aware of and fine with this expectation, but it’s essential to communicate earlier enough.
Hey, thank you very much for posting in Steem Skillshare. I truly enjoyed reading your publication :)
Agreed. There is plenty of ways to show affection - the simple hug or keeping the hand of another person may be more intimate than sex in some cases. Love is also showed by taking care of each other, kind words, planning the future together, small sacrifices, and so on.
Unsatisfying sex life in a relationship can always be fixed, but the clue is conversation and respecting each other's needs. There is plenty of ways to make it more attractive: sex toys, fetishes, fantasies, sex in unusual places, threesomes, group sex... swinging or opening relationship sexually is also worth considering, although maybe in most cases it's not the best thing to do in the very beginning of the relationship (well, in my opinion. We all are different, so if someone thing it's cool to open relationship in the first week or month - good for them).
I don't think sex life can be fully satisfying when the couple, people who are supposed to be the closest to each other in whole the world, is unable to talk freely about such simple things as their sexual needs.
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