Life's amazing secret

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Today in this article I'm going to review the book which I read, The book's name is Life's amazing secret and it is written by the author Gaur Gopal Das.

To live a happy and peaceful life we no need to avoid challenges other than that we should know how to handle the negative situation and overcome it.

According to the author, the changes which are happening in our lives is like a dark cloud, if dark clouds come only we can get the happiest things like rain

In this book, the Author explained four simple secrets. That too he compared it with the four wheels of the car.

Like cars, we have four important wheels in our life.

1)Personal Life

2)Relationships

3)Work Life

4)Social Contributions

And the most important thing in a car is steering that is like spirituality. The car runs smoothly only when all the tires are in equal positions. Likewise in life, we should have all these four things equally, to run our life smoothly.

Though we have money, a car, and our own house we will feel like missing something in our life. All people will experience this feeling. The reason for that is, once we achieved success in our life our mind will search for another success but it will forget about happiness.

The changes happening in our life are like a salesman showing dress in the shopping center.

We have a lot of options in front of us but the deciding factor is ourselves. Likewise, if anyone sharing their problems with you, you should listen to them instead of saying to them that you are also going through the same situation. Instead of talking, we should listen to others, that's why we having two ears and one mouth. Now we can see all the four wheels one by one.

1)Personal life

We are all used sunglasses in our lives, if we look through sunglasses everything will be seen as dark but once we removed the sunglasses we can see the real world. Likewise, we are seeing a lot of things around the world, we should see the real fact behind the things other than believing our eyes. Let us consider one tiny particle stuck into teeth while eating, our tongue will automatically go towards the teeth and will try to remove it. Likewise, there are a lot of good things happening in the world but our mind if seen any negative things it will try to concentrate only on that things. So we should give priority to our personal lives to get the next three wheels.

2)Relationship

Let us consider that you are going to a hotel to book a room. If the receptionist of that hotel ignores you by listening to music by wearing his headphones or if he didn't give any proper response, what will you do? you will leave the hotel and check for another. Like that there are 5 types of persons in the world.

See only bad
Neglect Good
Neutral( Will does not react for good or bad)
Neglect Bad and See Good
See only good things

3)Work Life.

Every person will competitors in their work-life, Competition is not bad but it should be a healthy competition. we should know the difference between healthy and unhealthy competition. For example, there was one photographer named Jamie who worked in a photo studio he had a stylist under him. By seeing the appreciation of Jamie the stylist was jealous of him, one day after completing the photoshoot of a big project this stylist deleted all photos without keeping the backup. Winning from others' failure is not a healthy competition.

4)Social Life

We cannot enjoy ice cream if we do not eat it before it melts. Likewise, a candle needs to melt till the end to give light. In these examples, we can consider ice cream as selfish and candle as selfless. Most of us would have traveled in an airplane that time the air hosts will advise us to wear the oxygen mask first and then to help others, though it looks selfish the main thing is that we should live first to save others. That is why we are seeing the personal life, relationship, and work life first because we should have money first to help society.

All these things I've explained is few, there is a lot more in that book you can purchase it in Amazon