Steemit Engagement Challenge S8-W1 | Love is Magical When it is Secured

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Hello friends, I bring you warm greetings from this end. I hope we are all doing well. It has been a period of electioneering and post-election period in my country and the polity here hasn't been good. There is no LOVE in the air as I write at this time. The majority of the citizens are crying foul given the outcomes of the results as they believe it has been corruptly doctored or skewed to favor a certain candidate. Many have observed wide-scale systemic rigging, disenfranchisement, conscious manipulation, and mutilation of voting results as the results keep trickling in.

However, we have to create a conducive and loving mood within our environs worthy of cohabitation. We will surely be fine as we expect and anticipate how the proceedings unfold. It is my pleasure to participate in the contest topic "LOVE IS MAGICAL WHEN IT IS SECURE" as presented by the Steem-Cameroon community. Love is an expression or feeling of living for others in a seamless manner. It has little or nothing to do with intimacy but rather those sacrifices and brotherhood behavioral acts that show Care, Concern, and Genuity while existing.

How True is the assertion that “Love is Magical”?

The assertion that love is magical is TRUE for me as we only need to truly understand the meaning of Love while disabusing our minds from the loose concept of sexual attachment. Having known that love simply means a natural commitment to the other partner, it brings about the bonding and attachment we observe therein. When we love genuinely, we do things we wouldn't have done ordinarily. This brings about a wholesome commitment of partners to each other. It brings about the driving force that bonds both parties to each of their activities.

These are the basis of love being magical. In the same vein, partners within this cycle prefer to be together than separate because of the bonding found among them that is characterized by Trust and Support for each other. No wonder among the different emotions inherent in the human body, love is the strongest. It comes with a more profound and intense happiness that goes a long way in affecting human behaviors and life.

Some of the key highlights of love being magical are evident in seeing the support from each other, time spent together, thoughtful giving, and shared emotions.

Do you feel secure when you are in love?

I definitely feel secure when in love. Just as earlier narrated, there are some key qualities that go with being in love. This goes with Trust, Support, and genuine affection. When we can guarantee that these parameters are in place, it automatically gives us the required security needed. I would see a reason to be afraid of your partner who you have to entrust so much and are willing to support at all levels.

However, this has to be reciprocated in either way. Being in love does not need to be one-sided to be magical because this could only project a situation where the ideology and support required to forge ahead are skewed and hence insecure. For me, once the required trust is guaranteed and the support for each other to thrive is observed, I feel 100% secure therein.

Give three scenarios where this statement is true “Love is Magical when it is secured

Firstly, I will say that before we could get to the level of love that is magical, a lot must have been sacrificed on this road. The issue of relationships is built for stronger interactions and effective communications. When this is done, both parties are able to identify the differences and grey areas to be worked on which therefore promotes effective bonding. Therefore, building effective Relationships for a greater future with your partner guarantees a secure love life. This allows each party to know how best to coexist properly with less infringement.

Secondly, it brings about Unlimited Gifting among each other. At this time, it does not matter who owns what, what matters is the interest of whoever is in need. This brings about gifting or buying gifts to partners, engaging in outdoor events and carnivals, and as well engaging in activities capable of building lasting memories.

Lastly, another assurance of this is to allow the relationship to lead to Conjugal Bliss. This is the expectation of every magical love and especially when we feel secure in it. It is a time of assurance and laying down every limitation and as well upholding those bonds that are capable of fostering life-lasting togetherness.

What are the impacts of this statement on you, your friends, your family, and society?

When God created man, he made unto him a woman out of his ribs. That is to say, God did not want the man to be alone and lonely, and however, needed a companion to be with. This simply means that we need to give love a chance no matter the life experience we must have had at any point in time.

Finding love and making it work is an interesting thing. So far we understand what love is all about aside from the attraction that we draw from its intimacy, we would be able to build bridges across the island. We should be able to show that trust, support, and concern for one another are the hallmark of Loving.

Who says we cannot Love others? Yes, it is possible. This does not have to be intimate. We have to show acts of kindness, concern, and support to our neighbors, friends, and society at large. Remember that we are meant to live for others, show basic protection, and make the world a better place void of violence and vices against humanity.

Thank you, friends, for reading !!!