BEING STUCK
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The year 2024 is fast burning out as we are about completing the third quarter. As the days and weeks are being spent and erased out, other aspects of life seem not to be collaborating with the possibilities many people have. While many are yet to understand why last year ended in difficulties, they are still faced with this years challenges and which seem to be tougher. For example, though the cost of living was already a tough puzzle to unravel, here came yet again, another increase in the cost of fuel and basic necessities which has rippled onto other issues. Is there, will there be a way out or are we STUCK?
Being stuck is a very painful psychological phenomenom where one is unable to see through, to go around, to muster the energy and resources necessary to overcome a situation being faced with. This could sometimes be so serious that one seems to be in a state of paralysis.
Being stuck, while a few find suiting solutions to their situations, most tend to resort to irrational and sometimes unrealistic solutions. Have you ever been really tight financially and the first imagination that comes to your mind is you walking by an abandoned building and finding a bag or suitcase 🧳of money, probably hidden by a thief who plans to come after for it? Or, have you ever found yourself in a desperate family situation and all that comes to mind is to abandone? I'm sure you all have been faced with different interesting experiences during your "being stuck" moments, you might want to share with other readers in the comment section please🙏.
The good news is, it's okay to be stuck and there is no determined duration for being stuck. Some could be for a day, a week , a month or even several years. The most important thing is:
- Never to loose the force that ignited your motivation in the first place.
- Stay focused and trust in yourself.
- Confide to persons who matter and keep seeking for a solution, this year will certainly end better than what you are facing now.
- Equally, try reading a book as they have a way of talking to us.
- Taking a trip or simply changing space can help change perspectives.
- Always remember that every problem exists because there is a solution to solve it. To every ying, there is a corresponding and expected yang.
On this note dear readers, I would love to encourage everyone going through one or several hard moments and feeling stuck that the best is yet to show up.
Have a blessed day ahead.