Toxic Relationships- February 26, 2023 || Let's Talk About It
Toxic people make relationship toxic and a toxic person is enough to make a life hell. Do you think toxic people are happy by making other unhappy and broken? They are unhappy and broken as well so they don't like happy people around them and make others upset by opening their bad mouth. It is hardly possible to make them understand that they are doing wrong and injustice and they keep upsetting people around them.
Its true that we never can please each people around us but we can't be toxic for people who once chose us to love. See, toxic relationship is not only exist among couples, it also can be exist among groups and community. Relationship among parents and children could be toxic, relationship between or among siblings also can be toxic but this is an unexpected thing for everyone.
Today in this blog I'm going to share my personal opinion and perspectives on toxic relationship. Who never experienced having toxic people in life ever before? I think more or less we all have toxic people in our life. Before identify them please ask once to yourself, are you toxic for anyone in your life? Can you realize it? I think I become toxic when get panic but its a temporary thing because when I calm down, I feel sorry and never hesitate to say sorry too.
Our bad time in life makes us toxic but try not to be toxic as much possible. Our problems are not permanent but the behavior we do to others that can remain forever with them and they would mind it till the rest of your life. So if you have realization of being toxic then correct yourself soon or it would be too late.
What is your understanding of a toxic relationship? Give some examples.
Things that make relationship toxic are misunderstanding, disrespecting, blaming , jealousy, abusing, greed, quarreling, beating, insulting, scolding, slapping, using bad words or slugs languages, pull others down, demotivate by words, suspecting, attacking, physical and mental torturing and more. There are many kinds of relationship where there one or two both act like toxic.
For example husband and wife quarrel with each others and they insult each other in different ways. Toxic relationship end up with some bad moments and could be a lifetime suffering if we tolerate and remain silent. Two people should consult psychologist or relationship experts to have a permanent solution. Being alone is better than being in a toxic relationship.
Have you or any close friend ever been in a toxic relationship? Share your experiences.
Right now I can't recall any incident that indicate a toxic relationship. I've experience of having toxic people in life and they are my very own siblings and I feel cursed to have them as toxic. Sometimes I protest but they won by using their rough words and I decide to stay away from them to have peace of my mind. Now I'm living away from them and trying to ignore them as much possible.
Ignoring toxic people can be consider as self love and care because toxic people in our life make our life such a hell and we feel broken most of the time. Toxic people will make you cry and will never become the reason of your smile so better you decide leaving them as soon as possible.
What are some Coping strategies for victims of a toxic relationship?
As I told above, ignoring toxic people is the best. If we can't ignore them then try to let him/her know that you are hurt and if he/she doesn't care then they doesn't deserve you to have you in their life. Open your mouth and protest against the attack of toxic partner in your life. Consult specialist and take appointment of relationship expert to find a way to make the relationship healthier and happier. Give it a chance and if it doesn't work then please move on. Toxic people in your life is harmful for your both mental and physical health so take care of yourself by ignoring them or try to make them realize that they are toxic and they need some positive changes.
As a counsellor, what advice will you give victims of a toxic relationship?
As a counsellor I will advice my client to give it a last chance if it workout then they can continue or else move on is the only way as solution. If things are getting toxic between couple, I will suggest them recalling their days of love and togetherness when they laughed together and cried together. I will suggest them to spend maximum time together and plan a date or trip somewhere like honeymoon. If things work then they can continue but if things get worse then separation is the only way I believe.
I just hope I've explained it well and there may no toxic relationship exist in this world. We should spread love by giving love and accepting hearts with love. A good partner is a biggest blessing to live a better life likely a toxic partner is enough to destroy or ruin life.
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