Contest!!! Marriage For Life or Contract Marriage?

Hello greetings to you all amazing people of steem Cameroon 🇨🇲 community and beyond. I'm proud to be a member of this community because of it's amazing contests on very educative topics. It's another privilege again for me to write a post here and this time I'm taking part in a contest with the title Marriage for life or Contract Marriage?

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Firstly, i want to thank the entire administration of the steem Cameroon community and the organizer @chant for this contest. For it is such an important topic of discussion and I believe that as we all share our divers ideas, we will learn and avoid so many mistakes as far as marriage is concerned. Alright , without wasting much time let's dive straight into the main thing.

I'll like to use the guiding questions that was given by the admin so that it will keep me on track.

1. What is your understanding of the statement “for better and for worse till death do us part”?

Firstly For better for worst for me actually means a lot. It's means that one is accepting to be with another regardless and irrespective of the situations surrounding them.

It may actually mean that in moments where you both have nothing you must not stop loving each other and also when you have every good thing you shouldn't ignore your partner.

Then till death do us part is simply a pledge that one makes to commit themselves, to another till their very last breath.

This statement is a covenant but it's quite unfortunate because many people make It out of lust and excitement and end up breaking them. And you will bare with me that any covenant broken has a penalty.

1. Which do you prefer marriage for life or a contract marriage.

Okay For me there is nothing biblically speaking as contract marriage.

It's the world's system to deceive and mislead many astray. The only marriage that I endorse is marriage for life.

Now don't get me wrong. There are a good number of things that can warrant a marriage to be terminated. But it doesn't mean people should intentionally go into marriage with the aim of quitting some day. For the sake of this post I will not go deep into that.

1. Do you agree that house chores should not be a role attached to a particular gender?

I'll answer this question with a Yes. I agree that house chores should not be a role attached to a particular gender alone.

Nevertheless, you will bare with me that there are a lot of things in the house that a woman should be responsible for, for example, taking care of the house.

Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying it's solely a woman's job but sincerely speaking any woman who allows her husband do certain things while she's there in the house doesn't honor him enough.

A woman is supposed to be the chief builder of the home while the man chief builder of the house. Know the difference. I made a statement some time ago somewhere and I quote:

"When a job 29 man marry a proverbs 31 woman they will make a Psalm 112 home."

Please you can read from your Bible to understand the above.

1. Consider yourself a specialist in the field, and share some tips with youths about marriage.?

Firstly God is at the center of everything you should not even accept someone who isn't God fearing genuinely.

Ladies hear me, if it's marriage you really
want, you must be a woman, and a woman must be ready to submit to her own husband not sometimes but all the times. You can quote me anywhere.

Guys please don't only go for looks alone. Of course everyone would want a good looking lady for a wife but that shouldn't be the principal basis for choosing your wife. The book of Proverbs will say and I quote:

Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman who fears the Lord shall be Praised.

Please one last advice, don't rush into marriage. Marriage is not an achievement but marrying out of purpose is. Be purposeful in choosing your man or woman. Because once you enter into it. It's either you live I peace happily ever or you leave in chaos.

My regards 😊
@newtonb

I will like to invite @abongeh @cecil @wase1234 to also partake in this contest.