Steemit Engagement Challenge S8-W1 | Love is Magical When it is Secured

How true is the assertion that "Love Is Magical"

Daydreaming, your head in the clouds, your heart racing and butterflies in your belly. Thats the feeling when someone falls headlong in love. Hours go by and time flies but yet the person barely notices. What could be more magical than these? Love Is Magical.

Love like magic with excitement and no logical explanation keep pulling our curious minds into the dream world we do not want to wake up from. Suddenly, flaws, weaknesses, and obvious defect seems to disappear in the emotional excitement of the feeling of love. Could it be why the great Apostle Paul said (Love Covers a Multitude Of Sin?).

Like magic, it should cause you to do the impossible for others or others do the impossible for you. We would act in strange unreasonable ways because of this feeling of love that controls one like a magical love portion.

Do you feel secure when you're in love?
It depends on who i am in love with. Love opens you up and makes you vulnerable to the one you love. When the wrong person becomes the object of your love, then you're in big trouble, you will be used, taken for granted, taken advantaged of and hurt. By the time your eyes are open and they bring you down from the magical clouds of love, you will be hurt and devastated.

On the other hand, fall in love with the right person and the magic lasts forever after. Though open and vulnerable, they love you, they protect you,and you feel secure with this person. So i feel served when the person i love reciprocates that love towards me too.

Give three scenarios where this statement is true "love is magical when it is Secured "

Love Is Magical When It Is Secured. My brother met the love of his life. He could have only had her as a girlfriend for years, but however their relationship took a magical turn when she saw willingness to pay her dowry and he saw that she was willing to live her father's house for him. They both had a magical relationship both willing to cut off old ties and securing their love with the boundaries of a marriage convenant.

Secondly, love covers a multitude of evil, because we love someone, we over look their weaknesses and flaws even though they might have hurt us, yet ww are willing to forgive and let go of whatever we had against them. The knowledge that they are loved and accepted the way they are, unconditionally gives them a sense of security in the relationship that makes it magical.

Thirdly, the person i love the most is my mom. With no doubt, i know she will never reject me no matter what i do. So i decide not to do anything that could hurt her, and try to do what would please her in everyway i can. Our love becomes magical because it is secured in our unconditional love for each other.

What are the impacts of this statement on you, your friend, your family and society

This statement impacts me in no small way. The magic many need is just a shoulder to lean on, a person to trust in a world of insecurity. I can be that person.

The statement impacts us all. All we all need is love. When we're all commit ourselves to being the kind friend, family and community that cares, protects and seeks for these good of the other, then we will start experiencing love between friends, family and community that is truly magical because it is secured. Lean on me when you're not strong and I'll be your friend, I'll help you carry on.

Lastly, love may be a magical feeling that keeps us daydreaming with butterflies in your belly but many at times it is not always so in real life. We must learn to engage our minds and make wise decisions about those we let be the object of our love, less the run away with our hearts leaving us. I have learnt in life that i cannot make people love me, all i can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

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