"Marriage for Life or Contract Marriage" by @memamun

Hello friends, how are you all, I hope many of you are well, I am also very well Alhamdulillah. First of all I would like to thank you dear @chant for tirelessly organizing a beautiful contest, I am very blessed to participate in this contest. So let's start again with the issue of participating in the competition

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I would like to say something in this little wisdom in relation to the phrase "good unto death but evil we have no part". Actually good till death, but that should be by looking at the strength of the relationship. If my life partner is very important to me, and heart to heart, then ours till death It will be good. Bad is bad, no one wants to be bad in this temporary life. However, due to their own mistakes, they have to face bad things. So there are many benefits to moving forward with everything thought through. May Allah Ta'ala grant us all the correct understanding, Ameen.

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Here we have to say something in tune with the era, we heard a lot from our fathers and grandfathers, most of them were direct marriages. And there was immense love and trust about them. But nowadays I find that contact marriage is predominant. I am single myself but I am well versed in this matter. Then I myself am looking for contact marriage. Today's boys and girls make an understanding with each other beforehand so that no problems arise after marriage. Also know about each other from before. So I am in favor of contact marriage.

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An important thing. I will not assign responsibility to any gender for housework, because all genders are free. But the female gender does domestic work, and the male gender does outdoor work, and both genders do outdoor work as well as domestic work. But in this case I prefer the male gender. Because men are good at all kinds of work. i am can do everything from cooking to cleaning clothes, ironing clothes, sweeping the room and other household chores. So I would say that even if a certain gender is assigned to women in housework, everyone does the work together.

Although single myself, I know a lot about marriage. As such, you can certainly call yourself an expert. Some advice for young people about marriage;

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• Marry late but let it be with the right person, not with the wrong person.

• Make complete preparations for marriage. Like fulfilling all the duties of a wife.

• Get a thorough understanding of the character. So that there is no problem later.

• Marry a magnanimity and generosity girl so that there is no problem in work.