Great write up!! What is really love? The bible says in john 15:13
Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends
That's my definition of true love! True love is forgetting about yourself and thinking of your partner. Imagine everyone had that in mind, the degree of love in this world would've been superb. But now we have spouses who can't lay down their pride for their own, can't lay down their ego for their own but can only judge when they do something bad.

We need to lay down our lives to truly love to as Christ loved the church.