Creative Writings | The Pastor's Pain!
Pastors help people but people don't help pastors.
She wants to marry but not to a pastor, but when she has financial difficulties, it's pastor! Not banker, shelter, emotional, educational and the remaining nails, she comes to you pastor and you still pray again for her🤣. Let her go to the kind of man she wants to marry for all those things. Stop then worrying the poor pastor, pastors are blessings from God.
You show your selfishness when you tell a pastor you don't want to marry a pastor, it's as if you are telling him that what he's doing is either a local job, or a job that is disgraceful. Whether it be to your spiritual father or a normal pastor that has no intentions towards you, you can't just downgrade his profession before his very eyes and expect the best from him.
I don't want that "Thing" of Mami pastors around me. I've personally heard this from 80% of girls. But you want his attention when you're in need. When he is in trouble, you now say, "are you sure God really called him? How can he suffer this way if God really called him." Eske you yourself you get airtime for call Yi? Even airtime for call on God you get?
Pastors go to burry people they have never met, the answer strange calls and are respectful, though with exceptions, they teach, counsel and pray for you. In every profession, there are people who don't behave well, but it hasn't stopped men from demanding their services and many more.
If you ask, what do you do for a living, he says he's a pastor, you will hear, apart from pastoring, what do you do again? Seriously?🤣. Since it can't pay, don't say people that have private jets took it just from tithes and offerings. Whatever thing you do, people must talk.
Pastors too can learn from you. After you have received spiritual things from them, give them carnal things too. That carnal thing could be social life, dressing, and many more. You don't stand and laugh that he can't dress well, while you didn't teach him what to do. Let's change our mentalities.
Pastors have your secrets in their stomachs, things that not even your best friend will not hear and stay. They know your good, bad and ugly. So when You meet another who doesn't know your things, respect him because he knows the secrets of another fellow like you. Don't respect because of what they have done, just be a christian.
Even if you don't want to marry, there is a way you say it before their faces. You might not know whether your future husband is his disciple. Mind the way you break their hearts, they teach what they have suddenly realized in life🤣🤣, and your husband might be his devoted disciple as I said 😎.
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A very important point you write on good work sir. Treating people in the right way is a basic need. Let's not take only Pastor but this point of view you mentioned can be seen around people with many other fields that don't give much wealth. It's simple; "a better life is not with a guy who earns well or owns a Ferrari or a big house but with a guy who owns a big heart and is disciplined enough to respect its surroundings."
Oh yes! You're right! You're very very right as it can apply to everyone else. I blessed by your comment
😀the case with pastors is just many people haven't understood the ministry of the pastor and pastoral ministry demands a lot so even being a pastor's wife isn't for just anybody .
Girls that say that are right blc they know themselves its not an easy task to be mami pastor just that they express themselves wrongly.
Oh yes! That pastor wife is a calling
Exactly its not just for anyone there more to being a mami pastor than just being a wife