Creative writing by @kahagnes on "sex in marriage is not dirty or a sin"

Hello guys good day to everyone thanking God for good health,,,,,,,

I will like us share this story of a couple I know.

This couple is in their thirties and both virgins ,,I happened to share this experience with them because we had similar cases.

The guy had never experienced kissing before he got married, they have been married for 4years now no sex, no kiss, no romances,

The Lady said they are strong Christians endeavoring to grow in faith daily for a program of 10years that is why their religion view sex as dirty and a sin.

My question is this
"is sex ever considered dirty or sinful between married couples".

Yes for some reason they feel that staying without sex is a way to show God that we are ready to leave an exemplary Life,

I understood his point but felt Petty for the guy because everywhere you go you see women dressed nearly half necked focused on seducing men.

From nature also, the male body become so prone to sexual thought the longer it goes without sex or ejaculation..

This lady went further to explain that, they have much love for the Lord and self control till the 10years program is over.
Then I began to wonder if wether the male is not subjected to sinful thought rather than just having sex.

Sex is pleasurable like any other activity that gives pleasure, some people assume that all pleasure is wrong from their religion background but sex in marriage is not a sin,

If your husband is concerned about not being tempted by the world, so he denies himself the pleasure of sex yet God gave marriage couples the pleasure of sex to prevent the temptations to seek sex elsewhere.

You can't get a glass of water from the gutter no matter how thirsty you are because you know the source is contaminated and disgusting. Thus sex in marriage is not a sin nor dirty.

Sex with your own spouse is joyful and safe not dirty, recall that Solomon in the Bible made mention that "let your fountain be blessed"
a man's fountain is his penis and bless means to be happy.

God expect a couple to enjoy sex and have fun with it because the alternative is to be tempted to commit adultery.
Thus sex in marriage is not a sin

They maybe periods in Life like during fasting and prayers that couples try to abstain from sex because it's a distraction but Paul warns that it can not be a single decision, once married you are now a couple you now make joints decisions to forgo sex for that period of time and should not be Long because you can't fast and sin at the same time.

Sex is not supposed to be boring in a long-term marriage instead it has to creat an intimacy with your partner and become more satisfying because you now know each other's like and dislikes.

Sex in marriage helps you keep your intimate relationship satisfying through healthy sex Life ways which are;

-Show love to one another.
-Attracts your partner physically with your outfit,, smiling styles or even a show.
Curve out time for each other.

Applying that sited above, you will experience a healthy sex Life and not term it dirty or a sin in marriage..

Thanks for glancing through this peace of writing,,

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