Steemit Engagement Challenge S8-W1 | Love is Magical When is it Secured.

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Greetings to you all my fellow Steemians. I'm happy to get engaged in writing on this topic "Love is Magical When is it Secured". Please follow me closely as i give details on how love can be secured via magical.

👉🏾 How True is the assertion that “Love is Magical”?

We all have love ones, but the truth is; is our love secured? When we talk of love here, it might be love from our family members, friends etc but in this context, we will be looking at intimate love.

Having intimacy with your spouse is not just a mere saying. This is because we all have gotten involved in love, and many because that was not their spare parts, they found it wanting and could not stay in the relationship.

Many persons tried managing the relationship because of some factors but forgot that you cant manage a relationship that will last forever. The best time which most people found their companion is during a loving seasons. This is because many young girls could not stay without during this period. But i noticed after this period, the relationship is broke up! Some persons had it like a life style while some see's it as a platform of extracting cash from men.

Now love is magical when both parties understand themselves and are both matured in minds and character to bear the burden and tolerate one another. If this characteristics are in place, you will notice that both parties can never have any serious issues leading to brake up in marriage. It's at this stage we can say love is magical and secured.

👉🏾 Do you feel secure when you are in love?

The bible made us to understand that, love is the greatest thing! The bible also states that "He who founded a wife, founded a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord." This alone will tell you that love is more secured when you meet the right person in your life.

Personally, i feel when you are legally married, at this point one can be secure in love. Being in relationship with a man or a woman is not a guarantee to say you are secure in that relationship. Most young ladies today are just out for their daily bread so because of this, they don't give a damp to any thing call love. Note love is sweet and gives security only when you are legally married.

👉🏾 Give three scenarios where this statement is true “Love is Magical when it is secured”

The truth remains that love is magical and beyond human understanding. I used to imagine how i can't sleep whenever i have issues with my lover. I discovered that our minds are working together even when she pretend to be fine but deep in her she's not. I had to summon courage as a man and talk to her in a soft tone and i discovered that she has been in pains just for not hearing from me over a night. After i sort things in place, she now open up and says, *"Do you want to kill me? This has thought me a lesson that i should not carry any issue had with my lover to the next morning. I make sure i settle that before the next day.

The second scenario comes from the first scenario, here you must learn how to forgive each other very quickly and by so doing the love you both have together will increase and you won't see any woman/man out there to be relevant like your partner. When such takes place, we can now say that love is secured.

The third scenario is when both parties comes from a God fearing homes that knows the truth. It's only truth that keep and change wrong relationship to the best. Whenever you tell your partner the truth, and he latter verify that was just nothing but the truth you told him, the love he has for you increase and more confident is assured. But when he/she verifies and it happens that you have spoken lies, he will never believe you again and at this point we can say love is not secured.

👉🏾 What are the impacts of this statement on you, your friends, your family, and society?

I will say that the life we live will rather make people, friends and family and our lovers to trust and have confidence in us. The joy you have is when the life you are living is of emulation and people around you can trust and rely on you, this is when we can say that you have impacted in people around you.

You should always give a listening ear to your parents. This is because when you have issues with your spouse, the next place for you to run to for advice is your family which is very important. If you had no respect for your family, it will be too difficult for you to return to them whenever you have issues in your relationship.

No matter what you do, you can't live without a society. Many persons likes to isolate themselves and never wish to join in doing things in the community/society they came from and this has limit them in different ways. The way we attend to people around us can bring good things to us if only we are good to people.

Conclusion

The facts remains that we get to know the importance of our partners and our love one when we had issues in life. This is when we begin to imagine all the beautiful time we've been together and this is what has made love magical.

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