Steem Cameroon Poetry Contest Season 7 - (Courtship) by @ishayachris
What you understand by Courtship Define in your own words
Courtship can be defined as a period between a lady and a guy who are in a couple relationship, which later precede to their engagement and marriage. Or its an establishment of an agreed relationship between two adults of opposite sex (male and female) in which the relationship is of a more enduring kind. During courtship, the couple get to know more about each other, and decide if they will be an engagement or such agreement. A courtship may be informal and private matter between two opposite genders and it can be a formal arrangement with family approval.
What is your experience as far as Courtship is concerned ?
Talking about my courtship experience, I must admit that I have been in several relationships which later fall apart due to some individual differences that do occur between me and the ladies I dated. I started dating at the age of 18 years, and I was about concluding my secondary school then. As of then, the relationship was not actually defined and there was no any objectives for the relationship. We were just kids who fell in love and as such we went on dating. Talking about my current courtship status, well..., I'm a serving corp member who will soon need someone to spend the rest of life with, and I won't be wrong to say i'm currently into a serious relationship. Although, we are not engaged but, anything can happen very soon because the relationship is defined, and its formal.
In not less than 200 words, write a poem about Courtship
We are in a world where almost all young adult are into courtship. Some of the relationships are defined and have meaning purpose, while some are goalless and meaningless. I hope that people can understand that courtship is the period where you can have time to understand your spouse. Its a time to know the way your spouse think and act to situations. Today we have thousands of broken homes and marriages all because some couple were not able to understand and work on their differences when they were in courtship. Some children grow without the mentorship of both parents because of a broken marriage, and in return, both the social and the economical development of our society suffers from those children who grow without parents mentorship. It's time for every adult who is in courtship to understand all the believes and the norms of the person he or she is courting so that, we won't be experiencing broken marriages on daily basis. While in courtship, ask questions that are relevant to the future of both of you. Work on your differences so that the both of you can always understand and reason with each other. With that, we all will have a peaceful homes and marriages.
Thank you so much for reading, and for making a decision to utilize your courtship period wisely so as to avoid broken marriage.
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Hello sir, I like your write up, because it's true, and it's really vital
but please if you could make it look more like a poem.
I agree with you, a good well done courtship will reduce respectively the level of Divorce.
Great write up sir🙌🙌
Does this mean those gay men scattered in USA for example, do not go into Courtship?? Since u mentioned it must be of opposite sex.
Well..., i believe gay is not something that's religiously legalised.
Ahh kk