Steemit Engagement Challenge S8-W1 | Love is Magical When it is Secured

Love, every creature has a different view of love, I agree that love is magical, unique, mysterious and even love is full of question marks that have no spots.

The magic of love and its uniqueness lies in the lover, I want to give a small example of love with the subject of lovers. their relationship (male and female) is based on a sense of comfort so that his feelings will tend to be on their relationship, the feeling is getting stronger and they want to be with him always, get to know him more closely and are even willing to sacrifice time to attract his sympathy.

The magic of uncontrolled love will actually destroy everything, increasingly sophisticated technological developments do not provide limits for everyone to interact at any time, video calls, messengers and various other facilities without limits.

Not a few of them become victims, hurt and deceived by their feelings. I see the negative effects of this blind love as a phenomenon that often occurs, they give anything to get the heart, give money without limits and the most ridiculous when making a dream partner as a place to save.

When conflicts occur, one or both of them will be disappointed and hurt, all in vain. All that's left is regret. In my opinion there will be nothing eternal from love, except love because it is based on faith.

I agree with this first point which finds that love is magical.

Every person who is in love must feel something extraordinary, his enthusiasm continues to be passionate and every day he continues to radiate an aura of happiness on his face, it is undeniable that I have also gone through these phases.

The spirit of work continues to emerge in order to realize long-term goals with the idol of the heart. Several years ago I went through this phase, getting to know the girl who is currently my wife, I had to go through an uphill battle even though her parents didn't give her blessing. The power of love for a noble cause, namely because of the Almighty, united us to marriage, and live happily to this day.

I adopted that Love as a Gift from God so that it continues to be positive, but love that is possessed by lust because of the whispers of Satan will only cause havoc for them.

1. The Magic of Love because Sincerity can Unite
   It wasn't long before I got to know the girl who is currently the mother of my two children, 3 months after knowing her through BlackBerry Messenger, I immediately asked her to introduce me to her parents, she was happy to hear this happy news and immediately informed both of them via telephone because at that time she was continued his Chemistry education in the Provincial Capital.

   My good intentions turned out to not get his blessing, indeed I was asked to meet his parents but not to bless our relationship, but forbade us to have contact.

   This case was revealed when I met his parents when he was on semester break, I came at night and met his parents. I was invited to enter and sit in the living room, on the way to the City of North Aceh Regency with a distance of 25 Kilometers from my residence, I continued to pray to Allah Almighty, "O Allah... If this is indeed the best for us, unite us in marriage bond and received the blessing of both parents.

   I was asked two questions, his father didn't ask what my job, my social status or even my education was, he just asked "What do you do at night?, how do you know my son?"

   Seeing the condition of his religious parents, I spontaneously replied that almost every night I spent time studying religion at several religious education centers, after that I went home and rested. mother several years ago.
   Sincere intentions because God Almighty has united us and in the end I was blessed with a note to wait for him to finish graduation.

2. Love will get true happiness

   Love will get true happiness when it is based on sincerity, accepts all the partner's shortcomings and turns them into energy to fill one another.

   This statement is a dynamic that occurs, many pre-marital and post-marital couples end relationships that have existed for the reason that there is no compatibility, humans are born with differences, different views, differences in socio-culture. If these differences can be managed properly, it will have a positive impact on the sustainability of their relationship.

   But the differences that exist without being properly addressed will be the beginning of destruction.

3. Building mutual trust as a foundation

   Mutual trust in a partner is a basic element as a defense of love, we don't always live side by side for 24 hours, couples have their own world with unstoppable interactions either due to work factors or social living factors.

   Many Loves run aground because they are not managed wisely by fostering mutual trust, sincerity and the ultimate goal of love will give birth to a new pattern of habits, mutual understanding, nurturing and supporting one another.

Love has given many positive influences in life, the power of love has given energy beyond expectations. Life without love is like a white paper without scratches, paper will have meaning when there are strings of meaningful words.

Human life does not always run straight, but there are many sharp and steep twists that continue to block the journey, the power of love will provide energy to keep looking at the goals of love by continuing to think positively and live life with enthusiasm.

Love is not only oriented to couples, but love to family, parents, children and the environment will feel the enormity of the power of love in the process of life.

Cc: @sofian88 @el-nailul @heriadi