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Who gains during date meetings.
When we men most at times organise date meetings, we are prepared to sponsor, we have extra 2k or 5k reserved for transport for the opposite sex. But the reverse is true with most ladies. Even when they invite you out for launch they still expect that you do something. And as generous as we are we hardly go for such meetings emty handed we still have something to offer.
Who looses in a date Meeting?
I can say with alot of certainty that Men always loose the more i.e from cash to time and at times insults. You need to listen to Women after one of their friends is back from a date meeting. When i use to hear my sisters gossip and say all sort of things about people who have just bought them stuffs. They are not always negative though. They will be like he is so romantic, He is so cool etc. i get angry. But i end up giving a word of advice telling them to stop whatever they are doing. If you don't like a man don't like his money.
I go show that shumbu something, E get money and i go chopam fine, they will start coming up with ideas on how they will fake pregnancy so as to extort money from you. Some go as far as faking birthdays to get money from you. Women at times treat men like dogs, They see us as things without value." that dirty thing" even when you can't compare your level of cleanliness with the man. That church rat, that idiot. But you di chop idiot e money. Someone might think i have been a victim. Somehow i have been. But mine is minor when compared to other people'. If you have grown up sisters Hide and hear what they gossip especially when they come back from outings. Ask them questions make them to be upright and moral.
Most at times the physical violence you will see from men is as a result of psychology violence from women. The truth is the world will see the physical act and will react to it without realising that maybe the man had being going through alot for months and even years.
I don't support violence against women. No one deserves to be Bullied but come to think of it when you treat people the way you do what kind of retaliation do you expect from an angry man?
Examine yourself.
Why Treat people like they are log of wood?
Why treat responsible people the way you do?
Why
why….
We have so many activist who are out there who advocate for gender based violence but we are blind to all these things. I think they should organise seminars in which to educate both Men and women on these pressing issues. Ignorance is killing us.
You have a right to your opinion but then making or treating people like trash is not the Best thing.
Our creator created us and embeded in Us human dignity which most at times we violate this precious right.
Take no offense in this write-up. We get educated through somany ways and i think this could be one. We might do things out of ignorance but coming across a write-up like this will make you angry. Don't just get angry. Think about it. Examine yourself and be morally upright. There are things you will say even if you are a good person inwardly, the world will see you as a bad person.
I stand to be corrected and you can do that in the comment section i will so much appreciate your comments.
God Bless you abundantly and please forgive me if i was too hash.
Mea Culpa Maxima🙏🙏🙏
God save us.
I am a woman but its not like i will support them, a relationship ought not to have those that gain or lose, its a mutual affection, most at times ladies eat mens money because they feel like the men wants them because of sex. Define your motive at the beginning of the relationship to save yourself
Thanks for the great contribution Mme i appreciate
Beautiful writeup chief. I see everything you said it's very true and I agree to that. I think more than 80% of men have surfered from this violence treatment from ladies during their dating periods.
But I believe some men too are the cause because they think money can buy love. So I see the reason why most women does what they usually do by extorting money from men simply because they might have been spoiled by money in their previous relationships.
But all thesame, I believe if a woman Truely loves a man, she can't do that act to him.. they do this only to men they don't love because I know if a woman loves her man, then she will treat him like a king
Thanks for the contribution Sir. i actually was supposed to mention how some rich men treat women. Thanks again. this your comment complements the write-up
Words 🙌🏾
i hope it creates an impact
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Nice write up bro, I agree with most of your notions
You agree with most of my points but failed to point out those you dont so we can as well rethink.
I believe most of these trends are jokes but nevertheless you are right in some cases
But resulting to physical violence because of mental whatever will forever be unacceptable
That is why we have laws which enforce sanctions because there will always be defaulters.
But we must condemn violence of any kind to anyone wether male or female.
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Good job for the writing.
I'll like to emphasize on one point. What they are doing is not good, I my self I'm a victim of the insults from ladies. One thing is sure you'll get married, and you need to find the perfect partner, by doing so you need to go out for dates, believe me not all ladies are the same there are nice ladies with a kind heart. You cannot find them by staying in your house.
So my bro I am sure you will find your own. Don't be harsh with them.
Stay bless