CLUB 100: SEX AND ITS IMPLICATIONS IN A ROMANTIC OR INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP
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A romantic relationship or an intimate relationship is an emotional union between two people of the opposite sex who want to grow with each other, support each other, care, love and protect each other including intimacy. It is different from friendship because it has to do with sex and other romantic acts. It is also different from a game or business because in a relationship we don’t necessarily look at our own gains but we want to make sure our partners are happy. However, sex had taken Central stage in all romantic relationships and these has gone a long way to twist the whole idea about sex and relationship. In this post, I shall not consider religious beliefs concerning sex and intimacy before marriage but I will be using simple logic and realistic points to pass the message.
He used me and dumped me😓
After all I did for him, he still left me bla bla bla all men are the same: wicked
He took advantage of me, I gave him everything, but he left me…
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These are just few of the heart breaking slangs girls make when their male partners turn them down in a relationship. We have practically make it seem as if sex if an asset that Ladies give to men and that when man has sex with a lady, the man gain something. This is very wrong and should be condemned in strong terms.
Many people have argued that unmarried people should not have sex at all and they have their reasons but since I’m a realist, I will be dealing with the reality that we see and do daily. If we want to through to ourselves, we will accept that a relationship without sex always get bored and partners do not feel as closed as those who have sex in their relationships. Sex is a unifying factor ☺️. Those who have had sex will always want to have some more and those who haven’t obviously craving for the day they will have it. Let us not pretend that we don’t want to talk or hear about sex. Sex plays a very important role in a relationship BUT we should not abuse the use of sex. There are extends in a relationship where only sex can take you; without sex, many relationships will fail…some ladies think that any guy that asks for sex in a relationship is not the right man for them… they secretly want sex but don’t want a guy who asks for it…the whole thing is just funny.
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From a from a realistic point of view, sexual intercourse involves two persons who are willing to do the act for mutual enjoyment. However, women has turned sex into a whole financial stream and more.
- When you have a lady needs something, one of the fastest options is to offer sex in exchange for position, grades, money, favours etc
- Men now believe that when she doesn’t want to have sex with him then she doesn’t love him.
- Sex is now used to measure the depth of love. That is why some people will rather say we made love instead of we had sex.
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HOW DO WE SAVAGE THE SITUATION?
In order for us to change our minds about relationship and sex, a lot needs to be done. In the next episode, I will be sharing we you how we can reconcile sex and relationship in order to grow with our partners and have to good relationships we all wish to have…
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Hope you enjoyed as you read through
I’m waiting for your questions and/or opinions on this topic at the comment section below 👇.
Follow up for the next episode which will be dropping soon
- To be continued
Cheers ☺️☺️🌷
You have said it all
You have a really good topic here but then you took it to a very wrong turn
Sex is totally for married people whether you are a realist or not.
The reason we tend to think a relationship is boring without sex is because we have set our mindsets that way...its like sex is now the proof that you're dating someone when it should not be so.
And serious i will say guys are the reason for all this because plenty of them make a very huge deal about sex in relationships. Like its a do or die affair or without it relationship wont work
Although we all get that urge guys over do it massa
Anyway thanks for sharing
Abeg gettat sex is sweet
No one said its not
What a great write up.
Wow this is quite interesting
😓😪 all men are same ya
Na true
Na one mami so born them
Okay sir we have heard ooh 😅. But I still stand on the fact that such relationships are meant for the married people and not free boys and girls just flirting around for fun.
Wow dear this is a very vital topic ohh
Wow interesting
Thank you ma for this will educate most especially our lads in this country.