#Club5050 | Dating Part 2

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Hey! Good morning 🌻 everyone, sorry for the absence🙏🏽.. Some of u have been asking what has been going on that I didn't post about relationship.. Well worry no more.. I'm back with full vibes .. What we'll be getting today as lesson is really going to help some of us who are still confused on what road to choose.. so follow up😏

So.. let's say you got problems in your relationship to the point breaking up..
Let's talk on 6 reasons why men will want to come back to the relationship.. ladies follow up✍🏽

1. He sees that you're happy without him and his ego is damaged: this will often cause him to reach out in hopes of trying to dictate your emotions to strengthen his ego.. This is not love, this is jealousy.

2. He notices that you appear to be doing well or better and may believe you're beginning to move on.. This believe prompts him to reach out in fear that when you finally and successfully move on, it'll make it harder for him to return.. He's not coming back because he loves you but because he sees that he's losing access.

3. He is testing you: he's trying to see if it's indeed possible to abandon you and return whenever he wants to. He's priming you for an extended roller coaster of emotions. If he knows that he can hurt you, disrespect you, break and neglect you then leave and decide when he will return, then he'll must definitely continue to do it in hopes of continually breaking you down. THE MORE U LET HIM BACK IN, THE HARDER WILL IT BE FOR U TO MOVE ON.* He's not coming back because he misses you, nor loves you.. All he wants is to see if he still has access to you .

4. He's either bored with the person he initially left you for or the person is no longer interested in him. When a man leaves all of a sudden where there is no proper explanation or a valid reason for him to do so, it's usually because they've taken an interest in someone new. He's not coming back into your life because he has realised his mistakes, but coz things didn't work out for him in his new relationship.. So him coming back is not that he cares for you, it's just that you're plan B for him, just an option for him and not a priority.. So dare not to fall for those texts you receive .

5. Sex and pleasure: please ladies hear me out, this is what most of you don't know..men use sex as a point of ownership. And even if that relationship ends for whatever reason, that man will add your name to a list of women he has been involved with. He will then reference or visit that list to see who he still controls emotionally. You remove your name from that list by refusing to let him back into your life.

6. Yes, in some cases a man returns because he regrets losing you. But it's always important to remember how and why that relationship ended in the first place. It makes no sense to allow him back into your life, when you've spent most of your time uncertain as to how much you mean to him

This also applies to some ladies who want to get back into your life guys.. But point 5 isn't really applicable though in most cases😅 ...
Well guys, we're done for today.
If you got any questions, comment section.🤭❤️

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