Romantic Relationship, III.
...continued... from Part 1 and Part 2
2. Commitment:
Which talks about the intellectual components of your relationship.
We now live in an era where people are already looking for an escape route even before they commit into any relationship. Oh! What if it fails? I always tell them too, "Oh! What if it works?".
One of my many daughters told me about a guy she is dating and then mentioned how the guy told her they would not be having a court wedding. Upon hearing it, I already know in my mind the kind of person he is. These are the types that would never want to take so much risk for their relationships and want everything in comfort. They just want to play safe and people like that would never be willing to give their best in difficult situations.
We should create an era where once something is broken, you won't just throw it away but you'd fix it.
3. Passion:
Which talks about the physical components of your relationship, which is the desire to touch, kiss, hold each other and lovemaking. I won't be saying much on this as I really want us to redefine what romance is all about.
Most people think a guy would leave them or a lady doesn't love them until they explore each body parts and recreate every inch of their own dimensions to it.
You want the body? Do you know about your partner's dreams and goals? Do you know about what bothers him or her? Do you know about his or her fears? Do you know about the insecurities your partner deals with? Take a pause and ask yourself those genuine questions.
In your relationship, whether you are single or you are married, be caring and considerate. That is the new romance.
...to be continued...
Thank you for your time.
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Being caring and considerate is the new romance indeed because any one in a relationship that focuses on sex only I think they should rename such relationships as lust and not love!
Absolutely, if the focus is just on the sex part then that relationship should be better defined. Thank you for your amazing contribution.
Thanks man!
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I love this. "We should create an era where once something is broken, you won't just throw it away but you'd fix it". We fail to try to fix something because it is broken and we try finding a new one to replace the broken one.
This is indeed educative. We do not even have the time or create time to ask or partners certain questions, all we are after is the down to the body business part.
Thanks.
Brilliant contribution. My issue with most people is when they try to find an escape route for a relationship even before they started it. They would rather not fix a broken one but choose a new one and the cycle continues...
Indeed.
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The commitment is mutual, it is a balance of love, trust and commitment, where both must contribute to strengthen the relationship.
When there is trust and love there must definitely be effective communication that is a fundamental piece in any relationship.
Brilliant contribution, my friend. So true.
I don’t think love can be judged by body sharing or dating
Absolutely...love goes deeper and it involves some level of commitment.