Letting go and healing

Many people realize this after so many of tormenting their self with this pain. My side I must say it's not as easy as it lo very close friend, a female friend for that matter, you can say my girlfriend in short. Before I met there was a hot with her and her cousins. Infact that's the reason I even came to know her before I was a judge in the matter.

So for not to be one sided I had to hear from each side, what happened and how it started. Everyone tell their good part and leave the bad one which is why I had to do cross examination between them. At last , we settle, everything back to normal but not for the girl. The pain she went through makes her leave with it for many years....I knew something was wrong because anytime we chatted I mentioned something about her cousin, it's either she end the conversation or she try to change the topic.

There's a time she blocked me because she thought I sided the other side, maybe they would have told me everything.....but that's not true. After so many months of talking, she finally open up about the pain..... something I never thought might be bothering her all this while. I can't forget the emotions and tears that day.....that was the first day someone pour her heart to me.

Why am I bringing this story? To tell you that it not about saying I will let it go, but is about preventing it from hunting you after, if there's something you need to do, either to talk to close friend, just do it. I know sometimes the pain is like a scar, it will take time. But afterwards, leaving those negative feelings behind will give you a change to be positive.

Try to move on, stay positive, relax, let it go, one door closed another door open.

Thank you @etoro.