SEC-S10W2 – Happy Stories
I will continue with week 2 of season 10 of the Steemit Engagement Challenge with a unique love story. I am very much involved in this story although not directly. She was a good friend of mine and we discussed everything openly.
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ℑ 𝔥𝔞𝔳𝔢 𝔱𝔥𝔦𝔰 𝔰𝔱𝔬𝔯𝔶 𝔴𝔥𝔦𝔠𝔥 𝔡𝔢𝔰𝔠𝔯𝔦𝔟𝔢𝔰 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔥𝔞𝔭𝔭𝔶 𝔪𝔬𝔪𝔢𝔫𝔱𝔰 ℑ 𝔥𝔞𝔳𝔢 𝔰𝔭𝔢𝔫𝔱 𝔴𝔦𝔱𝔥 𝔪𝔶 𝔣𝔯𝔦𝔢𝔫𝔡 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔰𝔭𝔢𝔫𝔱 𝔭𝔩𝔢𝔞𝔰𝔞𝔫𝔱 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔫𝔬𝔱-𝔰𝔬 𝔰𝔦𝔱𝔲𝔞𝔱𝔦𝔬𝔫𝔰 𝔴𝔦𝔱𝔥 𝔥𝔢𝔯
I knew this girl in love with a classmate during our college days. The feeling of first love, especially in the teenage, is always wonderful. When the lovers are together they neither think about the future nor make any big plans, no worries at all about anything. She was at an age when she felt like staying the whole day in front of the looking mirror.
She wanted to be with him all the time. His small things seem meaningful and with the beautiful feeling of love, she felt like staying within herself. The whole world seemed to her very beautiful.
𝔚𝔢 𝔱𝔞𝔩𝔨𝔢𝔡 𝔞𝔟𝔬𝔲𝔱 𝔭𝔯𝔢𝔱𝔱𝔶 𝔪𝔲𝔠𝔥 𝔢𝔳𝔢𝔯𝔶𝔱𝔥𝔦𝔫𝔤 𝔲𝔫𝔡𝔢𝔯 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔰𝔲𝔫 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔰𝔥𝔞𝔯𝔢𝔡 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔪𝔬𝔪𝔢𝔫𝔱𝔰 𝔬𝔣 𝔧𝔬𝔶 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔰𝔬𝔯𝔯𝔬𝔴
I don’t feel surprised when people say, 'they don’t believe in marriage' or to be precise ‘in the institute of marriage’ because they feel that most marriages do not last long or fall apart in a short time. I agree some married couples are not happy even if they have not parted ways or are stuck in some kind of rut.
I believe that couples not happy with their relationship find their marriage a boring routine that can be hard to break. Here I would like to ask a simple question- what do you think is the main reason for marriage, do you think one gets married for having children?
Is that all, don't you think that love and care are more necessary more than other things in a marriage? But marrying just to have children was not necessary because you could have children without getting married anyways! Love and care for each other play a major role in a long-lasting marriage more than anything else!
ℑ 𝔴𝔦𝔩𝔩 𝔱𝔢𝔩𝔩 𝔶𝔬𝔲 𝔢𝔳𝔢𝔯𝔶𝔱𝔥𝔦𝔫𝔤 𝔟𝔢𝔠𝔞𝔲𝔰𝔢 𝔞𝔰 𝔴𝔢 𝔨𝔫𝔬𝔴 𝔱𝔥𝔢𝔯𝔢 𝔦𝔰 𝔞𝔩𝔴𝔞𝔶𝔰 𝔞 𝔰𝔭𝔢𝔠𝔦𝔞𝔩 𝔪𝔬𝔪𝔢𝔫𝔱 𝔱𝔥𝔞𝔱 𝔯𝔢𝔪𝔞𝔦𝔫𝔰 𝔢𝔫𝔤𝔯𝔞𝔳𝔢𝔡 𝔦𝔫 𝔬𝔲𝔯 𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔡𝔰
And then I knew when she was a married lady for almost seventeen years now who wanted to marry again. Yes, she was a single mom of two children in their teens and she was in her late 30s. She was settled in Dubai and she said her hubby was cheating on her with her real sister and now in a job in a distant country and living there with her ex-wife's sister.
But that was not the end of the story but my friend later met a man on Facebook and developed good relations with him. He was in a multinational company and went to Dubai to meet her in restaurants, cinemas, and other famous places during his official visits.
𝔉𝔯𝔬𝔪 𝔪𝔶 𝔭𝔬𝔦𝔫𝔱 𝔬𝔣 𝔳𝔦𝔢𝔴, 𝔥𝔞𝔭𝔭𝔦𝔫𝔢𝔰𝔰 𝔦𝔰 𝔴𝔥𝔞𝔱 𝔰𝔞𝔱𝔦𝔰𝔣𝔦𝔢𝔰 𝔲𝔰 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔥𝔬𝔴 𝔴𝔢 𝔞𝔠𝔥𝔦𝔢𝔳𝔢 𝔦𝔱
She once said jokingly, "You will miss me here because I am going to Hawaii after marriage for a grand honeymoon", I smiled and wish her a happy married life!
But she was sad after meeting him a few times in real life she was no more interested in him. As a matter of fact, she did not see him as what she was expecting in her future husband.
She said, by the time she finished her last date with him in a restaurant she had already lost interest in him. She also said he was not her kind, although charming by looks but she did not find him either caring or romantic. Good luck to you lady for a better guy next time!
She had her marriage gown ready but no marriage for her because now she thought marriage is not worth wasting her time! This story is a true story as narrated by my friend herself but she had a very good reason not to marry again. Marriage is not a marriage that has no real love or proper care for each other.
I would call it a happy ending to a love story even though her off-white marriage gown which she had prepared for her second marriage is still hanging in her cupboard.
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@senehasa
@nahela
@jannatmou
@metti
Una muy buena historia amiga para tener hijos no es necesario casarse porque cuando llega ese gran amor nosotros solo queremos la felicidad y no convertir la relación en una rutina que se convierte en aburrimiento, siempre es bueno hacer cambios en nuestro día a día.
Esa chica paso por varias cosas y para que no la volvieran a lastimar tomo la decisión de irse lejos y pensar en tantas cosas que tomo la decisión de no volver a casarse.
A very good friend story to have children it is not necessary to get married because when that great love arrives we only want happiness and not turn the relationship into a routine that becomes boredom, it is always good to make changes in our day to day.
That girl went through several things and so that they wouldn't hurt her again, she made the decision to go away and think about so many things that she made the decision not to remarry.
Thank you so much, I guess I am in love with your kind words as much as you liked my humble effort 👍Thanks a lot.
Una historia de amor bastante controversial.
Me alegra que tu amiga tomara una buena decisión, porque si ya no sentía interés por ese hombre, de nada servía llegar al matrimonio, ya que si lo hacia por compromiso sería muy infeliz.
Por eso digo que es un final feliz del amor. Si ella hubiera seguido adelante y se hubiera casado con él, sería un desastre total. Gracias por su amable visita.
Así es amigo, primeramente está el amor propio, para poder brindar amor a los demás.
Éxitos en tu participación 🤗.
Relationship growth requires trust; without trust, the relationship will burst. Trust fosters love, affection, and care. When one person lacks trust in another, all bonds suffer. In my opinion, she should first trust herself, and then the other. When this occurs, a strong bond is formed.
Good luck with the contest and thanks for inviting me.
Exactly, that was the reason I said the story ended on a happy note. Thank you!
It's important to approach such situations with empathy and understanding, as each individual's experience and feelings can vary. If this person is seeking support or advice, it might be helpful for them to reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or a professional counselor who can provide guidance during this difficult time.
Yes, probably a guru who could teach her about the finer points and intricacies of such things. But then there is no control over love once it happens. However, not all love affairs end successfully. Thanks for your feedback.
Love and friendship is beautiful feeling of the life and no relationship can ve strong with the feeling of trust.
You are right without trust and love there is no use of marriage nor it can gave happiness girl decision was absolutely right.
Good luck
Undoubtedly, I agree with your point that she took the right decision otherwise it would be her life that will be hanging in the cupboard.
Yeah obviously a miserable life
Love is a feeling and love never dies.
Life is too short and let's make it shorter together. Best Of Luck
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A veces nos deslumbra la apariencia externa en las personas, sentimos como se expresan a través de una pantalla y aún sin saber cómo son física y emocionalmente nos seguimos siendo atraídos a ellos.
Pero al llegar el momento de conocer a esa persona directamente en interactuar o convivir con ellos, nos damos cuenta que sus sentimientos y forma de ser son distintas a lo que expresaban por el teléfono o el computador.
Esto fue lo que le sucedió a su amiga y por supuesto que hay una historia con un final feliz, porque se detuvo y no entro a una vida que quizas estaría llena de infelicidad.
That was a perfect analysis of the situation and I must say my friend came out of that situation right in time. Had she gone further and married him, I guess that would be the end of another road for her. Thank you so much for your visit and nice words.
Gracias a ti por compartir esta historia que la vez nos deja una reflexión. Éxito.
Saludos amigo.
Que gran Historia, y tan cierta porque es la historia que se presenta cuando hay matrimonios sin amor el final es evidente Separación el matrimonio no es solo un gato social, involucra sentimientos puros y genuinos, y cuando no los hay no llega muy lejos es mejor no casarse y estar solos porque la felicidad no depende de otros y mucho menos si se esa casados o no.
Tu amiga tomo una buen decisión, Es mejor sola que mal acompañada quizás no es si destino cansarse.
Genial historia amigo buena suerte en el concurso.
Tan cierto, me alegro por mi amiga que tomó la decisión correcta y no tomó una decisión apresurada, de lo contrario viviría en un caos por el resto de su vida o tal vez le esperaba otra angustia.
Así amigo. No todos tomamos la mismo decisión y nos toca pasar por muchas cosas desagradables, aunque ahora soy feliz con mi actual esposa viví un matrimonio complicado antes, me case a los 16 años motivado por la soledad, y la inmadurez me hizo fracasar y no fue bueno para ninguno de los dos . Por supuesto que de ese matrimonio me quedo lo mas valioso de mi vida mis hijos.
Bendiciones amigo.