Dwelling In Blame And Self Loathing Due To A Sense Of "Over-deservedness"; How Does This Affects Creativity?

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When there's no reward for hard work, the motivation to continue is expected to wane and when this isn't the case it means we have an abnormal case of passion or resilience as well as hope for a better next time which isn't really rampant in the kind of world we might be evolving into. However the aggrandizing lifestyle which is often painted on the media nowadays showcases effortless money making ventures which of course has contributed to the lazy mindset which is is held by a lot of people. One common fact we know and accept about ourselves is the fact that we as humans are absolutely impatient, we want everything to happen quickly for us, we do not want to be late achievers we want to be early birds, and as a result of this rush. However this is because we want to beat a timeline that seems like a yardstick for everyone who set out in life to become an achiever.

People lash out when their efforts isn't reflecting on the feedback they get. This feedback might come in form of monetary reward, in fact mostly come in form of monetary reward, but one thing people do in this particular period is that they become guilty of inefficiency, they reduce their productivity because they feel no one sees the hardwork that they're particularly putting in. If you ask me, no one's not susceptible to anguish because of not getting what they feel they deserved but sometimes what balances this is having to consider the point of view of that audience who you deem unsupportive. In life the hardest of things can still have us persevering but the smallest of things can have us giving up like we didn't expect

Sometimes the the lazy type of mindset is what makes people feel always deserved and when there's a senses of over deservedness it makes people too sure or certain of their abilities. Truth is, experiences everyday should make us better but when we're too reliant on our abilities we own spend our own creative time being uncreative and redundant and this is a rabbit hole that people hardly comes out from. In the mean time, it's better to maintain a sense of positivity in a the most painful circumstances. Like i said earlier no one is above the pain that comes from unproductivity but the self blame and the unnecessary loathing of others is the true reason why people no longer cultivate the lazy mindset.

Everyone might not be presented with the same opportunity to work with this because of the unfair characteristics of life but should we always dwell on this? I once blamed my parent for being the reason why I feel I might not reach some heights because of the circumstances that came with the of their marriage but what do i know? We exist the way we exist and we bear the punishment from the negligence of others but it doesn't afford us whatsoever the 100% effrontery to dweel on this pain. In essence people we think and feel they have it easy go through some of the most painful period before getting to where they are but this part hardly surfaces or its truncated for people to truly learn. In conclusion gnashing and complaining makes people stuck in limbo and there's hatred as time goes on, there's this frugality because no one lauds complain and self pity rather there's a praise on continuity irrespective of the unfavorable conditions that comes with it.