Hello friends and family members of steem reflexiones dr vida community.Accept special greetings from my mother-land country Cameroon.Once more welcome to my own blog today.As I share with you people my thoughts for this for this week3 engagement challenge. Here as the subject matter is “Decide, act and release”.

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As a human being we are created with the ability to think and reason .In any situation we find ourselves we need to think base on our reasoning to come to a conclusion.On what to do or act base on our conscience .Focused on the guided questions given I will be sharing my own thoughts below. I hope everyone will find joy in reading my post.

For me forgiveness can be defined as an act of being remorseful for a negative act you did someone.With your conscience you decide to expressed your feelings by using the words sorry to for hurting him or her. From this the person decide to let it go by forgiving.

Also, a times forgiveness is not only base at acknowledging a wrong thing you have done to someone.You might hurt a person and he or she decide to forgive you because they feel you have acted out of your emotion to let the situation out of his or mind.

Notwithstanding is all about putting aside feelings and your sentiments over what someone has done for peace to reign within you .like I said is all about accepting you wrong someone or simply been angry.people let things go not because there are have deeply forgotten what you did but they feel people need to given another chance to prove themselves worth trusted again.

Yes of course I remembered one incident when I was in secondary school.We we’re asked to tell our parents in school to for our trip for geographical site seeing to another town.My dad gave me money and paid .After some months because of some issues the trip was cancelled and school administration had to refund all the students their money back.

Mine was given, because I felt it was already 5months my father gave he will never know that they have refunded back the money.I decided to use the money for my personal use without letting my dad to know .I was shocked after some few months that my dad was informed by one of my teachers who was closed to her that they refunded our money back to me.

My dad came to house and was very mad at at me for duping him .He asked for the money but I was able to produce .This very day my dad slapped on my face for consuming the money and I recieved all the insult of my life .After, some few days I walked to my dad and apologized he accepted by forgiving.Spoke to me and advised me never to do such a thing .From that day the topic was closed and my dad had never mentioned any thing about what I did again.

No in most cases am not, if I have a problem with you and I feel you have hurt my feelings.You have not proven to be remorseful of your act the only think I can do is just to avoids associating with you in some to an extent .I will forgive you Inorder to let it off my mind.

One thing for sure is that can’t still have any thing to do with because am afraid I might hurt again in the next minutes.It take grace for someone to dine with you like before after hurting the person and you have not admitted your fault.for me avoiding you St the moment is not that am still having you at heart for you did .I do let things go to have my own peace of mind.

Some few months back, my colleague and I who happens to be my friend.I had some complications with our documents.We had some over due money we were waiting to be validated but there was no it could be done with the documents our ministry was asking.After we struggle to do it, it was showing there will only attend to our batch next year because the have already valises some people payment.

The man in question in the in the ministry in charge of validating the documents told us not worry he will try all best to valid theirs soon but after is valided we will need to compensate him 5% of money in our payslip and we agreed.later, after some few month the money was valided to our account. Since he is working in the ministry and he has access to our payslip he asked how much has come .

I told him the exact money I received in my account but my friend lied him and reduced the amount .He quietly downloaded her payslip circle the amount on it and sent to him.My colleague was speechless and I asked her to apologized to the man but she refused.I had to call the man and apologized on herself seriously because I wanted to maintain the relationship him and I know my friend was the wrong.I was happy the man forgive her in my behalf and we had to do our transaction agreement successfully.

I have come to the end of presentation. I would love to invites @anroja @josepha @crisvera @norat23 and @ridwant to participate in this contest.