My loving greetings to All my dear Steemian friends,

To day once again i am taking part in the competition "Steem engagement challenge-S12/W3|Gesture of Love organised by @hive-190211 in Reflexiones de Vida

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I also want to invite three of my friends to participate in this contest::
@mini80, @moyeon, and @chasad75

God has given us all human beings different emotions, lust, anger, jealousy, greed, anger, love, attraction, shame, forgiveness, and many more. But every person in his life, due to his own personal preoccupations with the well-being of himself and his family, is often forced to ignore many needy people even if he wants to.

And many times, under the influence of emotions, he helps someone beyond his limits. And sometimes he is not able to help anyone even if he wants to.

Do you remember the love gesture? Share your experience.

I would be happy to share an experience from my life with you.

In my neighborhood, a woman lived alone in a house on rent. I had heard that her husband works as an engineer in an Arab country, and he gets a very good salary.

I only used to say hello to that lady while coming and going to the office, but beyond that I didn't know much about her.

Then one day I saw that she was crying, I asked her what was her problem. She told me that the country where her husband worked had a fierce war with another country, and many foreigners had gone missing in this war, including her husband.

The woman again told that now neither is she able to contact her husband nor does she have money to meet the household expenses. I felt very pity and after consulting my wife, I made him settle in the upper room of my house, and told her to stay at my house and eat food etc. till his husband is found. That woman accepted my offer.

My offer of help brought tears to her eyes and she hugged my wife and started crying. After about 6 months, when the war ended, her husband returned safely. Both those husband and wife were always grateful to me and my wife .

Which person in your life has influenced you and you have not noticed their help? explain.

In fact, my parents had taught me since childhood that if you have the capacity and you can be of help to someone, then there should be no hesitation in helping that person. But sometimes one has to face such people in life when a person becomes helpless.

One of my friends was a very good businessman, but unfortunately his son fell into bad company and became a victim of drug addiction. I felt very sad about the condition of my friend. My friend tried many things to free his son from this drug addiction but all his efforts failed.

I also tried to help them financially, physically and mentally as much as I could in this matter, but due to all this it started affecting my own family, so then I distanced myself from their help. Because these things were affecting my growing up son also. This incident had a great impact on my life.

List 3 things that inspire you in your community and what suggestions you make to help. explain.

The first thing that impresses me is that no child should feel the absence of a parent, so when I was in the hospital, some women were reluctant to take their new born babies home due to domestic reasons, so I, with the help of an NGO, used to provide such children to needy couples.

The second thing is that we formed a group and created an organization to conduct mass marriages of poor and destitute girls and through this we got mass marriages of hundreds of poor girls done. Rich personalities of the city also helped us financially in this work. We will continue to receive blessings from these girls throughout our lives.

Third but not the last, the thing that impressed me was that many abandoned patients suffering from incurable diseases used to come to my hospital for treatment, whose families were also shy of them, and did not come to meet them or see them.

To help such patients, our NGO used to provide essential things like clothes, fruits, medicines etc. to these patients. Very generous people and rich people also helped us in this work.

What do you think about the following case: “A friend was in health trouble, you could not visit him, nor did you help him in any way. Shortly thereafter they die, and you make a lot of efforts to go to the farewell ceremony, you make an effort to bring them flowers and be there,” explain.

Yes, such an incident will always be imprinted on my mind, this is a very old incident, a friend of mine had burnt a lot of his body in a car accident. He was situated at a very far distance from my city, so I could not go immediately to meet him or see him, and during those days, due to my busyness in official work, I could not get any information about my friend nor could I help him in any way.

Then after about 15 days I was informed that my friend had died during treatment. I felt very sad and now I decided to go there immediately and could reach there on the third day by leaving the next day after receiving the information. In our country, after 13 days of death, a farewell program is organized in the memory of the deceased, then with a broken heart I remained there till the farewell program of my friend and came back after giving solace and mental help to his family.

This life is witness to many such events, which sometimes include happiness and sometimes sorrow. But the wheel of time continues to rotate at its uninterrupted pace.

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