Steemit Engagement Challenge S12W2 | A Call to Conscience.

Greetings,Reflexiones de Vida community

This week, I am again here to participate in the challenge announced inside the community.

POST LINK- https://steemit.com/hive-190211/@hive-190211/esp-eng-steemit-engagement-challenge

I found the topic based on the modern lifestyle and the tribulations that every parent has in their family.

Before elaborating and attempting the questions, I would love to invite@stef1,@heriadi, and @crismenia to participate in this challenge.

Now, let me answer the questions according to my perspective.

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Why do our youth and adolescents act with more violence? Explain some reasons that you think are the reasons.

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Before I answer the question, we have to find out the root cause.

Newborn babies are like wet mud;
They gradually get their shape according to the atmosphere they get surrounding them.

Earlier in one of my content, I shared that children will never listen to their elders;
but they are always experts at copying their elders!

That means our actions reflect on them with time.

• Do we behave properly? With the other members of our family in front of the children?

• Do we teach them from the beginning the value of "NO."

• Do we spend sufficient time with them when our children grow up?

Our youth and adolescents act with more violence;
Because from childhood, we fulfill their demands.

Whether it is essential or not;
We always try to save our time and energy to keep them calm.

Another reason is funny but true! We always try to fulfill our expectations from them.

We think whatever we didn't get in our childhood;
we will prove to our children!

But our parents teach us the value of things by not fulfilling our demands.
Often, we value those things not accomplished by us effortlessly.

• Upbringing in a nuclear family is another reason.

Where parents are busy in their own world and do not bother to spend time with their children;
but rather to spend their leisure time with gadgets.

• Loneliness.
• High expectations from the parents' side, and comparison with other friends' lifestyles are some other reasons;
  behind the changing behavior of youth and adolescents.

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What can we do to improve this situation or behavior? Can you name two alternatives?

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(Spend quality time with family)

• Before we want to change the behavior of our children;
  foremost, we need to work on our behavior towards our children;
  and also towards our family members.

It's so tragic! But honestly speaking;
Now, we all are losing patience day by day because of various reasons.

We carry our work tension at home, and sometimes that tension often influences our behavior towards our near ones.

Remember, if your children are under five;
then you have time to change their activity by changing yourself, foremost!

But if the child crosses five, then you have to find out the reason;
behind their aggressiveness.

Sometimes, children can't share if they are molested by the near ones or in the school!

So in that case,

We often love to be parents;

Which is why children are often scared to share things; after a certain age.

A few alternatives are:-

• Be a friend.

• Discuss everything according to their age.

• Handle their problems and act patiently.

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Why is today's society more apathetic to the pain of others, of others? Explain some reasons. Have you had to help others?

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"It's our private matter!"
"Do not interfere in our family matters!"

These are some lines I listened to various times while protesting against domestic violence.

I have noticed so many things, and let me share one miserable story when a husband killed her wife by propelling a successor on her scalp.

Working in various NGOs, I have gone through several real-time stories like that where children also noticed these kinds of brutal acts.

Now, people enjoy listening to brawls sitting inside their homes! But our first job is to ring the bell and divert their concentration.

Then, we have to take involvement;
being a civilized citizen to help those who are going through domestic violence.

Various times! I abide by the initiative to support people;
There are so many scenes, I noticed, that can give anyone goosebumps.

We forget that a healthy atmosphere is equally necessary for our children besides home to grow them suitably.

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Could you list some of the principles that were instilled in you or you instilled in your family?

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At a very early age, I lost my mother, and after that, whatever I retained;
I memorized from either errors and the harsh circumstances.

But a few things I received genetically
and among them, honesty and hating lies are on the top.

I was born and brought up in an educated family where the value of principles never compromised.

That was all from my side. I hope you all will bear a morsel of time to read my post;
and share your valuable comments.