Steemit Engagement Challenge S12W4 | Decide, act and release.

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Assalamualaikum all of my friends. How are you all? I hope you all are well. I am also fine. Today is the first day of the fourth week of the engagement challenge S12 and today I am going to present my Engagement post on the topic "Decide, act and release" to the "Reflexiones de Vida" community. I am very happy to present the Engagement contest post on such a hot topic and I present my post to you thanks to the "Reflexiones de Vida" community team.

What does forgiveness mean to me?

Forgiveness to me means realizing the fault and admitting guilt to the one who has been wronged. In a word, to forgive one's faults for the sake of forgiveness is a noble virtue. Various importance of forgiveness are mentioned in our Islamic religion where forgiveness is considered as a special quality of human being. Our Creator also likes the forgiver more because the Great Creator does not punish people at the same time despite their many faults, but if the servant understands his mistake and asks for forgiveness from the Great Creator, then Allah accepts the forgiveness of the servant of the Great Creator, because forgiveness is a great virtue.

Forgiveness is a noble deed which the Great Creator also likes when the guilty realizes his mistake and repents of his mistake. Source

What is my saying about the fact that my parents forgave me despite my faults in my childhood?

Childhood is such a time of every human being, this time people do wrong things unknowingly, without realizing it, but in spite of these mistakes, parents forgive their children. Also, I had several misdeeds as a child, one of which was stealing fruit from other trees, which I used to do in groups with my friends. But my parents were strict with me in case of stealing but still some time warning me for this wrong act my parents forgave me and my parents asked me to refrain from doing this heinous act like stealing later on.

Also, I disobeyed my parents many times in the home and did not follow my parents' will, but still my parents forgave me for these faults. In a word, my parents forgave me for any wrongdoing by warning me which I still remember. I saw my parents in my childhood as forgiving and forgiving who forgave me for my wrongdoings and pulled me into their bosom.

In the mentioned picture you can see my father with me who both mother and father forgave me many mistakes in my childhood.

Do I consider myself a boring person?

I think the answer to this question will confuse many people because such comments about oneself make people think a little bit. But in Q&A I would say that I never consider myself a boring person but I consider myself an independent and somewhat principled person. I do not misbehave with any person in my life first until I am reprimanded by others. Also I always do my own thing when I'm alone because I like to take my own opinion for my own work. Also I am a social person where I like to get along with everyone and people around me love me too. So from people's love for me and my own confidence I can say I am never a boring person.

I am a social person and I have good relationships with my friends and people around me so I don't consider myself a boring person.

What is a quote where I was supposed to apologize but instead I was apologized to?

An incident happened to me about 3 months ago where I was supposed to apologize for something but instead I was apologized to. The subject was teaching my fifth class student and that day I was quite upset with my student's studies as he started dodging studies for quite some time so I angrily hit him with a stick on his hand. But then my student immediately tried to move his hand away and the blow of the stick hit the knuckle of the left arm and the skin broke and blood flowed out. I myself was surprised by this as my injury was not so severe as to cut off my hand.

However, I became concerned about the matter myself and immediately dismissed my student from teaching. My student's father noticed that his child was unable to move his left arm due to pain. At that time the student's father told me about the stick injury from my student's face, that night my student's father asked me to go to his house on a phone call.

I felt bad for myself then and thought of going to the student's father and apologizing for this uncalled for thing. But when I reached the student's house, the opposite happened to me. Where I went to seek compensation, my student's father apologized to the student and to me for the student's academic mistakes and I was asked to be stricter with my student so that he could perform well in the exam. I was quite surprised that day because my student's father apologized to me without condoning his son's wrongdoing which I will always remember.

In the above mentioned picture you can see me and my student on whose hand I accidentally hit the stick.

Conclusion

Forgiveness is a great virtue and people who possess this quality are also loved by others. Forgiveness is the first thing that is needed in our society to avoid conflicts. Because in anger people attack one another which destroys the peace of the society so that anger should be reduced to virtue of forgiveness which the Creator himself likes.

I invite my dear steemian friends : @shiftitamanna, @graceleon, @pelon53, @waterjoe, @radjasalman, @m-fdo, @jyoti-thelight, @fantvwiki, @lirvic, @solaymann.

Thank you very much