Controlling anger
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I hope you all are doing very well and doing a great job on this limit, but tomorrow is our Eid and today is the second day, so I am very busy because I have a lot of guests to attend. And so I'm having a bit of a problem working on a deadline, but I'm still trying my best to be active. And I must want to say thanks to @cotina for organizing this amazing contest
I'm thinking of taking part in the contest in a community like this, which I love so much that I keep taking part in different contests, and since it's about the effects of anger, I'm trying to I wish I could share my best post with you guys, but before that, let me tell you that it is not permissible for me to show you my photo, so I am sorry that I did not share my photo with you. I can but I will show my anger and expression through some things through some cardboard so I hope you will accept my thing and I hope you guys will appreciate me too thank you very much and let's go We start the post according to the answers to the questions
Take a selfie simulating your angry face and show us.
So in this question we are told to take a selfie and show anger but as I told you earlier according to my Islam, I cannot show my photo to people so I will make a beautiful image that will be in my anger and in this way I can show you my anger, I hope you will accept it, so see how I am making it
Are you one of the people who gets angry easily?
Yes, I'm a very laid-back girl and I get hyper when everything happens. If I can't take my anger out on someone, make me cry. Anger and other crying are the most common things of mine and when I am very angry and I can't say anything and I can't do anything, then that anger would flow in the form of my tears. And so on, but I get angry very quickly. Peace be upon you
What situations make you lose your calm and get in a bad mood?
No one can control my anger but I can do it myself or something happens that causes my anger to be resolved and it is resolved in a very good way and it is resolved like this. It should be the same as before and not the thing that makes me angry or else there is another way by which I can control my anger and that is my crying even though my friend is like this. The thing is, crying is not good and we shouldn't cry like that, it is a sign of our weakness, but I don't cry in front and if I am extremely angry and I can't take it out on anyone, there is a way to end my anger. Crying happens after a while if I don't cry immediately, but if I don't, I start to feel bad and the things inside me bother me, so when I cry, it's my words. My insoos come out as sisters which makes my heart light and it's great for me and that's every way I can control my anger through my insoos. Or I want to tell you more than that, which is a big deal for me if my tears don't support me and I can't cry and I can't find a place where I can cry alone. So I have only one solution and that is I come in Sajdah before Allah Ta'ala while praying and asking Allah Ta'ala many dua's and when I tell him all the things I feel like I have done them. I have put these things in front of her, and now she has to solve it and I am very calm that now my Allah can take me out of this condition and there is no doubt that she is giving me now. It has been removed from the problem and thus my anger ceases and thus my anger ceases
Now let me tell you which is such a situation that gives me so much peace and makes me angry. But I have such a personality that if I hear anything about them, I get angry very quickly and I cannot bear anything about them and I always take out my anger on my parents. So they are only because if anyone says something wrong about my parents because some are relatives and some are my own, they are the kind of people who cannot tolerate the happiness of human beings. They keep on talking to get rid of it and that makes me angry. Till now I have not come to anyone for anything done to me, but till now I could not stop what was done to my parents in anger and Because of this, some people know that I am right, that's why I say it, but some people who don't like it, they make a face that why have we said this to people, but I am you, people. I want to know that it is wrong that if I speak in favor of my parents, no one tolerates anything in favor of my parents, then how can I do it? I don't tolerate anything and if someone says it, I lose control and it turns into anger
Tell us the last reason that made you angry.
Let me tell you that there is not a single statement from me in the last time in which I got angry because since my father passed away a few months ago, I get angry at every little thing. I can't share my thoughts with anyone because I love those people who are very upset because of my father's departure, I worry about my mother the most and I don't share my thoughts with them. I can do it because I have to support them and not to let them weaken and because of this I am restless inside and I get angry at every small and big thing and I also try to control myself. I am doing and this is the only thing that keeps making me angry because I was a very lovely daughter of my father and also the youngest in the house so he raised me very lovingly and I have never I didn't think that they would leave me so soon. This shock is a big shock for me and I can't bear it. That's why I get angry about every little thing. Being more anxious and under tension and because of that and when a person is under tension, the whole thing is that he gets angry
Do you think getting angry is a bad or a negative thing?
Yes, there is absolutely no doubt that too much anger is a very bad thing for a human being. A lot of things happen to a person because of anger, because when he is not in his place because of anger, that anger. I say anything that causes regret for him later, so far my anger has not led to reckoning because I have always spoken the truth but sometimes I am not understood. Why do I get so hyper in anger and why can't I bear it I have seen many people eat a lot because of anger, man is thin of mistakes and when man gets something, Satan is on him. becomes dominant and he makes him do things that he never thought of. If their fight increases, in anger, whether it is the wife or the husband, they can do anything. If so, then there are many lives and when things are done, anger is a very bad thing there are also many examples like when a person is fasting, he does not see what is in his hand. The thing is, he kills the next person, and I have seen many times that killings have taken place due to anger. Therefore, I believe that it is a very bad thing
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Muchas veces se ha cometido el error de normalizar el enojo pero, esta emoción nos hace mucho daño a nivel físico y mental e incluso repercute en las personas de nuestro entorno por ello es necesario que aprendamos a gestionarlo.
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There is absolutely no doubt that whenever a person has made a decision in anger, he has not been able to reach a decision in his heart, but the decision made by him has brought him great loss and he has admitted his mistake. That's why you have said the right thing that we should learn to control someone because if we don't control anger etc. Thank you for bringing me to my post and thank you very much for commenting on my
Being a laid-back girl who easily I gets hyped by what has happened to her, shows how easily you can let go of something. It is nice you are a good person. Good luck to you.
Yes, of course, you have said the right thing. We should own up to our sufferings and we should understand that sometimes this person preys on us with great loss and this is not a good thing. A lot of things have to be done strongly, so we should all control our anger and we people should not make any wrong decisions.
Condolences on your loss. Losing a father can bring devastating effects to the family but I want you to know that your father would not want you to be angry at everything. You need to move on with life and find peace and happiness. Sending you love
Yes, you are right that my father would never want me to worry, so I will try not to worry. I will follow your advice because my father loved me very much. It was very lovely and he couldn't see me cry so I know he will be so upset to see me cry so I will definitely follow your advice. Thank you very much for understanding what I have to say.
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