Controlling anger

in Comunidad Latina5 months ago
Hello steemians how are all doing today, hope that all of you will be fine. Welcome to the Comunidad Latina community. Thank you for reading my post. A great contest organized by @cotina, about anger, this contest will give guidance and ideas to the participants by reading posts of other participants; how to control this situation.

"Anger"

Anger is a feeling and feedback on unwanted situation. It is a type of answer to a question; unwanted situation, hurting oneself esteem or embarrassing someone will bring anger as a result. Moreover, anger can be in different for; as financial issues and mental issues due to society or natural.

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  • Are you one of the people who gets angry easily?

I don't get angry easily, I think it is due to the situation and also I have experienced a lot of problems which made me patient. I am elder in my siblings; it makes me the dominant and the one whom should be more patient in life and face many problems in life. When I became major or became 18 years old I got angry very quickly but with the passage of time it was controlled.
  • What situations make you lose your calm and get in a bad mood?

  • As I said above, I don't become irritated easily but there are situations which makes me angry.

1: Comparison:
Society comparing people with each other, this has affected me worst; when someone compares with someone else, specially with family members with same age. Everyone's mindset is built differently, and everyone has its own specialty. As I am compared with my cousins in education, personally I don't like studying for more time and I weak at memorizing things by heart but I am good at technical things like solving mathematical tasks.

2: Dominancy:

This is also related to comparison between people, one party call themselves strong and better than other. e.g. white people considered better than black people in the past. As according to me, everyone is same in society, I don't believe in high and low cast, I don't believe in that educated people are better than the uneducated.

3: Respect:

When younger people call themselves better than elder one. Taking decision against the elder one, abusing elder people. I am strictly against this behavior of younger one's, elder people should also respect the younger.

  • Tell us the last reason that made you angry.

*Last time, I got irritated with the government system. These days the weather is too hot, electricity problems are on its peak here in Pakistan. Moreover, sometimes water availability is a problem for us. So, you will face problem while getting fresh or taking shower and also no availability of light.

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  • Do you think getting angry is a bad or a negative thing?

It depends on the situation, nature has given anger to us, so there is reason behind it. If there was no anger nature then it would be not needed. So, anger is humans quality; it is necessary in some situations, like, something bad happening to people, animals and plants, so I think anger is required here and we should be taking action here. In normal situation, anger is not needed for us. We should control our anger and be polite with everyone, meet and talk to people in a calm way and greet them.

I don't think anger is bad thing but it should not be applied every time.

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 5 months ago 

¡Holaaa amigo!🤗

La comparación es terrible y bastante dañina. En lo personal siempre digo que debemos evitarla porque esto además de generar molestia, puede afectar el autoestima de la persona y aquí es donde digo que, cada quien es único y debemos respetar.

Te deseo mucho éxito en la dinámica... Un fuerte abrazo💚

Greetings,
Yes friend you're right we should be treating everyone equally and giving them respect. Thank you for your kind words.

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