Equality
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ASSOCIATION
Dear ladies one of the perfect gift you will give to yourself while you are single is the right association and a step you need to take when you get married is a quick evaluation
Take a checklist of the people you have in your circle and evaluate what part they are playing in your destiny!
The people you associate with, to a large extent, determines how you view life, the people you have in and around your life, will determine the shape your life will assume!
Destiny is too serious for you not to pay attention to who your close pals are, influence occur gradually even without your knowing it!
A lot of single ladies have been led astray because of wrong associations and a lot of marriages have been broken because of 'ladies gang'
Have you wondered why they tell you that it's no longer possible to wait till marriage before having sex?
Have you wondered why they tell you that all men are the same?
Have you also wondered why those whose marriages failed never tells you that marriage ever works?
It's the power of association, their view is formed because they never experience something outside their circle, their experiences are based on the people they've been in associations with, so anything outside that is "impossible!"
Have you thought about all that you believed just because it was a conversation among pals or inner circles?
Every minute you spend with a person, he or she deposits a part of their personality in you, which is why Prov 27:17 says "As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend." (NLT)
Your friend can either sharpen you to become productive or destructive!
Your friend can sharpen you to become either a building instrument in the hand of God or a destructive instrument in the hand of the devil!
Choose your friends wisely...
Choose friends with the right values for life
Choose friends that will get your back in prayers
Choose friends who places premium on destiny
Choose friends that will tell you the truth without pampering your ego
Choose friends whose desire is to see you become a better version of yourself
Choose friends who have what it takes to catch you when you are falling out of alignment
Avoid friends that will clap 👏 you to doom, even when you are obviously making your life mistake!
Be careful who your friends are, choose the right association because they will surely rob off on you-Selah!
Appreciation: @infovore @davidad
© Lilian Ubani