2weeks to your wedding and you caught your husband to be in bed with another woman, what will you do? Cancel or Continue?
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Please my fellow women @steemwomensclub I want to hear your opinion on this matter.
As a woman, 2weeks to your wedding and you caught your husband to be in bed with another woman, will you continue the marriage?
My Opinion:
I wouldn't have to continue with such marriage,(It may not be easy). But I can't help it, there is no way I can overlook such a great offence.
Marrying a cheating partner is like settling down for less. Nobody will be happy knowing that his/her partner is not exclusively theirs, no wonder there are plenty trouble and too much quarrelling in polygamous homes.
You will never be happy in such a marriage knowing fully well that your partner cheats, so rather than putting yourselfself in such a bad situation, you should rather call it quits.
I was having a conversation with those in my neighborhood concerning this matter. Right there one of the girls said "Men will always be Men" meaning that men are promiscuous in nature. I wasn't shocked because I have heard this several times before, inferior people are akin to settling for mediocrity. I'm not surprised.
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This question was actually asked in a group on Facebook, and responses where coming from different members of the group majority said they will continue with there wedding plans, that it's the devil trying to destroy there happiness
Other Ladies also shared their own opinion as well on Facebook
I want to hear from my fellow women here in steemwomensclub
Will you continue the marriage?
Let me hear your thoughts on this.
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Thank you for sharing this. Truly speaking, it will be very disheartening to start marriage with such a person. But all depends on the individual and the circumstances that they met at the onset. If the man was seduced? If the man has also caught the other person doing the same thing? If both of they don't mind? They the decision lies with the one who has been offended. God's word advised that we only have sex after marriage. Those who go against that advice will always suffer the consequences.
Although not easy but i cant continue. Thanks for sharing
I can't continue with such marriage because there is no grantee that he won't repeat such in the future.
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This is interesting, this is my second or third times of reading such story. My response is, I will continue in the marriage, true love over look any fault. All you need is Godly counseling,prayers and your attitude towards the issue.
I witness a similar story years back, how a lady cut her husband cheating. Instead of igniting her marriage, she went for Godly counseling, support her home with prayers and Godly attitude. With these quality she showed up, the husband came on his knees begging her for forgiveness. Sometimes it is our approach to situations that worsen the case.
Thank you dear for sharing so we can learn.
This is really quite the debate. Nobody deserves a cheating partner. But it will be right to walk away only after the truth has been unveiled. Most of the times, what we see is not what is real.
We are witnesses to such things in real life that certain unwanted situations end uncompromising us and we lose a lot in the process. So as for me, whatever mistake he made, I will always go to the root and find out what happened. And if it turns out that he is simply an egoistic man that cannot be satisfied with what he has, it is time to let go. Decisions like this hurt the most when there is still doubt. So it is good to clear out all doubts first so as to avoid regrets.
I like your contribution here. Sometimes being quick to conclude a situation before finding the truth is deadly even though on no condition should someone choose cheating rather than being truthful. Sometimes, men are black mailed, seduced... even if, let you partner know about the truth. Don't choose to conceal it by cheating because blackmailers never quit.
Exactly my dear.