Steemwomen club....SINGLE MOTHERS

As a single mother it is personally my responsibility to get a man (boy friend,Husband) that is a father to my child. It would be so mean of me to look for a man and the only qualities i consider in him are those of a husband and leave out the ones of

As we single mothers look for husbands, let us also look at the features that our children would love to see too from a father figure because the truth is these children are likely to see your current husband more times than they will see there real father.
Making it worse we have scenarios where the real father of the child doesnot want anything to do with the child which means that the only father your child will know is the man you finally choose to spend the rest of your life with.

At the same time it is terribly wrong to introduce every man you date to your child. It is rather better you get to know the man personally, assess him in every possible way and let them meet your child only when you have made peace with the fact that that is the man that you would want to spend the rest of your life with.

This will help you reduce on the confusion in your children where they think that their mother is a player and this too helps us have some respect before our children.

Above all always get on your knees and talk to your creator every other day because he holds the future. I know my creator got my back and thats why i smile.

To all the dear women on here....you are loved irrespective of what you feel about yourself. You are perfect you are enough you are special. Dont let anybody make you feel less of this.