Share With Us The Situation You Passed Through And The Process That Took Place To Help You Overcome Them.

           Introduction

Greetings my fellow stemains. It's a privilege for me to be here once again taking part in this amazing contest organized by the community. In today's contest we where asked to share the situation we passed through and the process that took place to help us overcome them. Thank you @steemghana and @juzkid for organizing this contest.

As humans living on this planet, we all know that life is full of ups and downs, and we can't live without passing through challenges because, weather we like it or not we will definitely face some situation. as years goes by many challenges do comes our way and we experience difficult times in our lives.

Some may have this experience of losing their jobs, experiencing death of love once, adjusting to life change like divorce and many others. Life is not always how we want it to be that is one of the reasons why we always write down the situation we have passed through in life because it's among the important part of our life.

Situation I Have Passed Through

I have actually passed through so many challenges in life but for this contest I will be sharing one of the situation i passed through two year ago. I was in love with this young man who claimed to love me back in return, the relationship was so serious to the extent he came to our house and Introduced himself as my fiance, everything was normal,we were both happy wishing that we will get married after my service year.

I was in school when my friends called me and told me that my guy was going out with another girl, but I did not believe them because, i hardly believe what I did not see and perhaps I know my fiance so well. I so much truth him with everything in me, so i ignored all the things my friends were saying about him. After my school i went back home, everything was still ok and i did not see any changes in characters towards me. Few months later he got a job with the military air Force and after their training he was posted to serve in Abuja the federal capital of Nigeria. We always communicate as usual and our relationship was moving so well as we planned.

On the 24th July 2022, I will never forget this day in a worry, he came back home for brake and i was so happy to see him. After some days he came to our house and told me that our marriage will not work again, hummmm, at first I thought I was just dreaming but i never know it was actually happening right in front of me. I asked him why did he say that, did I do anything wrong. He said I did not do anything, but the reason he is cutting off the relationship was because the man that gave him the job made him to sign an agreement that after his first year in service he will marry his daughter. And he don't have an option than to marry her.

I was so hard broken, after how many years of friendship, I dedicated my life for that relationship and at the end he sold our love for job. Seriously i was depressed, to the extent i don't eat, I don't think straight, above all I don't concentrate in class, that year in school my performance was so poor.

The Process That Took Place To Help 
You Overcome Them.       

The process that took place to help me when I was depressed was my lovely mother, she was always there for me when I needed her the most, she told me not to worry myself about it, that what has happened has already happened so the best thing to do is to move on with my life. She always encouraged me even when I went back to school she never stopped because she knows me to well, most often than known she calls to check up on me.

Another person that encouraged me when I was passing through this situation was my level advisers in person of Mr Yohana John, when he noticed that I was not doing well in class, he called me to his office and talk some sense into my head and since then I told myself that I won't allow another person to hurt me again.

I ignored everything that happened and moved on with my life, right now I'm happy and all that happened is in the past.

      Conclusion

In conclusion, the situation I found myself back then really thought me a lessons not to trust anyone, and i have learned how to deal with challenges when they come my way. I don't allow situation to way me down anymore. The only thing I do is to call upon God and to work hard in other to overcome challenges. I invite @josepha @jasminemary and @negro-bby to come and participate in this contest.