Hello steemians,

In this life we ought to know that we are humans and it is only natural that we make mistakes. But it is then up to us to redefine our life’s from those mistakes, or to just sit back and watch things completely fall. It is up to us to decide whether we are going to make some necessary changes or not.

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CHANGES

Sometimes it is very difficult to make up changes especially when it is an issue concerning our financial life and emotional feelings. As we grow older we tend to realize that there are things that we do that are not beneficial to us and does not help us in any form.

We have the idea that we need to change but we do not know where to start and how to go about it. We see the need for us to change but we also think it is impossible to make such a change.

DO YOU REALLY NEED TO CHANGE?

Yes and immediately, one killer disease that prevent people from changes is procrastination. We think that we have all the time in the world, so we keep making excuses each time we fall victim to our own actions. It is time to stop everything once and for all. Do not think about it or try to reflect on the outcome when you change. Rather, just change whatever it is at once, and don’t look back.

You are much more stronger than you think. But your mind is forced to think the other way because you have given it the chance too. all you need to do is to change for the better RIGHT NOW.

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HOW THEN DO I CHANGE.

• Change your mind set. Make up your mind that you want to change for the better. Everything starts with the intention. And just like what I said at the beginning to change now and not think twice. After you set up your mind, everything that would come afterwards will be easy.

• After you have made up your mind to fully change, then set realistic goals for your self. Understand that a child does not just start walking at once but rather he learns to sit, he crawls, he gets up and fall, and again, and again, and again, until he is able to walk. With the same token, Try to execute your changes little by little until you are able to catch up with every thing and finally are fully changed.

• Set realistic punishments. Say, you want to start a new job that you feel shy to do. But at the same time you know very well you need the money. Make up your mind that, if I ever skip work I am going to give GHS5 in charity. This way you wouldn’t want to lose your money every time you skip work, so you will be forced to go to work. You have to be willing to make it a big deal and something you abide by. Remember that the punishment must be reasonable in other for you to be able to do it. For example do not set the price of punishment to GHC100, because is too high. Other wise you will end up breaking the rule as time goes by.

• change your environment. Let’s say you want to stop smoking, but you are seen hanging around smokers. You know it will be impossible to make a change with such company of friends. So when you make up your mind to change. It is also necessary that you also make up your mind to avoid what makes you fall into such mistakes over and over again. And also remember try as much as possible to make things easy upon your self. If you can’t cut them at once, you can pretty much as well go to them on specific days whiles making sure you don’t spend much time with them to avoid falling into it again.

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WHAT TO EXPECT WHEN MAKING CHANGES

• lose of energy. You really have to be strong and patient. You will feel like you are losing out on what you use to call fun, but rather is it just a little hit you get in the transition from bad to good. At the moment you won’t enjoy the new environment, but as time goes by you will start to enjoy it. Remember, honey is sweet, but drinking it from a dirty glass will make it tasteless. So you are in the process of washing the glass so stack in there.

• critics. Of course people will say this and say that. Which might drop your energy and might be the main difficulty in changes. But what you need to understand is that you will never be happy considering what people think or say because you. You can never be able to please them. So clear off your eyes and ears from people and do the right thing. At this point all you need is positivity. So surround your self with it. Remember, a little push of negative comments can change your mind.

• emotionally drained.

• mockery from people.

THINGS TO AVOID WHEN MAKING CHANGES.

• switch off traces to old habit, if not it will trigger them back.

• Dont over complain.

• make use of everytime in the changing process for a better results.

I hope with this information I can be able to help the steemit platform

Thank you