Who Has Access To You?
It is said in the Akan language that if an animal can get the chance to bite you then it was probably hiding in your cloths or closest. For one to be able to inflict any form of damage on another they ought to get close to the person and it is this same reason why betrayals and pain from close ones hurt more than anything else because they are the least expected.
Which is why you have to be very particular about who has access to you, who hears your story, who knows your information, who do you share your secrets with? There are many out there who feign love and care for you all the time but deep down they only wish your downfall and would do everything they can in their power to get you down.
These are individuals are what we refer to as snakes in the Akan dialect, snakes because they are slippery and like that of the snake that lured Adam and Eve into sin, they come to find your weakness and exploit them whiles pretending to be the best friend you never had, whiles acting like they are doing you that favor that no one else would do for you.
People are dangerous, hardly can we trust others, not that you should trust no one however if it was up to me keep your secrets to yourself, let them assume the worst of you and continue to work in secret till you achieve your goals, dreams and aspirations. Because giving people access to you may have just spelt your doom or downfall.
It is my hope that we do not become our own enemies and cause our own downfall by giving people the secret to our success and our uprising, i wish you the very best in the days to come and i hope you have a wonderful time.
We can’t trust anyone even our closest friends. There some part of us the we shouldn’t share with anyone as they can use it against us.
Thank you for sharing, that was wonderful education. Keep on sharing with us